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What do his actions mean? And why is he so nasty to me?

Q.   Sometimes i think this boy luvs me cause he stares at me and then next minute he's all nasty. What does it mean? from foxy...

A.   18 April 2005: You are interesting to him, it seems, for some reason or another, which to start with is quite flattering. Do you like him though, is the big question? Just carry on as you are and don't worry about him. He will learn in time that if he likes so... (read in full...)

His depressions led to our break up, but now he's getting treatment and I miss him so much!

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me recently, completely out of the blue. We had lived together for 3 years and been together for nearly 5 years. The main reason that he gave me is that he's been feeling very depressed and is worried about dragging m...

A.   18 April 2005: I think he did the best thing he could at the time for your relationship. Sometimes when you are feeling this bad inside, being around people you like or love is hard to do. He did what he had to for his own self preservation. Good on him for gett... (read in full...)

If I won't sleep with him, he keeps looking until he finds someone who will!

Q.   I'm 14 and an American who just moved to Maidstone and I need some advice. This boy of 16 likes me; thing is, every time we go out he wants to sleep with me and if I don't he stays with me til he does find someone who will. Then once he sleeps w...

A.   18 April 2005: What would you advise a friend of yours in the same situation to do? Think of it like this cos it helps you to detach the yourself from the problem and think logically. The situation you are in at the moment will continue on a simular thread f... (read in full...)

No eye contact... He won't come to bed unless I'm asleep... What's going on?

Q.   I have been married for 12 years and have 3 kids aged 4, 8 and 11. My husband has been acting so strange lately. He has been ignoring/avoiding me especially and ties not to have face to face with or eye contact with me. This 3 months is so obvious ...

A.   14 April 2005: You need to get it out of him. This is too much of a strain in your life. Why don't you approach it as the caring wife? Say that you think he is in need of a holiday as he seems not himself. Tell him that, if he would like to, you can get the kids... (read in full...)

My bf is concentrating so hard, he can't climax. What do we do?

Q.   My new boyfriend has trouble reaching orgasm with me. He claims that it is because he likes me too much and gets too worried during sex. He says he's focusing too hard or thinking too hard. I've told him gently that all I care about is enjoying...

A.   14 April 2005: The pressure as soon as you start "getting it on" is that it will lead to full sex and he will let you down. Love making doesn't have to involve full sex, showing your partner your love is possible in all ways. Why not have fun and frolicks... (read in full...)

Lost interest in my ex, now I'm going out with his best mate...

Q.   I was going out with someone for nearly 1 year. We broke up and 6 months after got back together. After another year we got back together. We was really close but I didn't see myself as his girlfriend for life and I knew if I spent the rest of my ...

A.   14 April 2005: The simple answer is to choose what make you happy. Don't let guilt get in the way. He will be hurt but that will for him to deal with and he will have help from his family and friends; you are not responsible for him. You also cannot help the who ... (read in full...)

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