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I have been through some really hard times in my life,love, sickness, career, children, I have many friends who value my advice,I am always there to help someone and going out of my way to do so. I work with loan parents who need a lot of support, I was one myself a long time ago, I live in the west midlands, I have just finnished a degree in English literature.

what makes me tick? I am interested in the human race....I love being in love. There's nothing like it. Even when it hurts. I am a romantic, I love to paint and go for family outings, I have three sons and five grandchildren, I am married to a wonderfull man who I love dearly.

How can i show him that we belong together? We are soulmates. I cant live without him!

Q.   Im 19 years of age, i've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. We were madly in love and planned a future together. We used to talk about getting married, having kids and getting a house etc. We both spoke about these things willingy as he ...

A.   30 April 2006: Hi, Soul mates are meant to be together, but not just for the next ten years it's forever. Really, I once had a love who I thought I couldn't live without, it hurt soooo much too. I was about your age. There is someone out there who is your real sou... (read in full...)

The sex life has dried up..do I leave or just have an affair on her?

Q.   help me i am married. have been for ten years have two children 2 and 5 we have a ok marriage the normal ups and downs but the sex life has dried up so help what can i do. i feel like leaving her or having an affair...

A.   30 April 2006: Hi there, Oh no, you must not leave her, ask yourself why has your sex life dryed up? Are you too demanding? Is she getting tired? does she work. if so, this could be one reason why. the grass is always greener on the other side untill you get t... (read in full...)

My wife wants to end our marriage as she found someone else. What should I do?

Q.   My wife wants our relationship to end after 9 years of marrage. She obviously wants someone else. I don't want it to end but she gets upset and angry when I let her know this. I don't know what has made her decide this exactly and she wont tell me ...

A.   30 April 2006: Hi, This is always a very difficult one! but one you can resolve. You need to sit down with her, but don't make it a 100 question chat, be careing, she obviously has some needs that you are unaware of. Question? has she got someone else or is it be... (read in full...)

We've both matured and are still good friends. Think we should try dating again?

Q.   hi i am 15 and i have split up with my boyfriend of 2 months. we broke up 2 months ago cos we thought we were just too young and didnt want the stress of a relationship. Also we didnt see each other much cos we dont go to the same school and were ...

A.   30 April 2006: Hi, Yes do make a date, ask him out, but take it easy. You don't want to scare him away. Just enjoy your company you have, share those special moments, but be careful. Sometimes love can sweep you off your feet too quickly. You are still very you... (read in full...)

He and I have power struggles and he never wants to make the efforts in this relationship. Help!

Q.   Me and my boyf have been together 18 months. We love each other but hes so stubborn. If we get invited to events as a couple he often says no. Its like theres a power struggle, he doesnt want to do what i want all the time. Sometimes we arrange a ...

A.   30 April 2006: Hi, In any relationship, it is give and take, if you are too dominant, you could be unsurping his maculine qualities. For example, men like to be the hero! they like to be and feel needed by us women. Indeed, we like them to protect us, admire u... (read in full...)

I amke it way too obvious when I am attracted to someone...how can I keep a cool head?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. Whenever I'm attracted to someone, it's always really obvious to them! I don't know how, but my friends always figure it out and I think it puts guys off. I try to act cool but how can I not make it so obvious?...

A.   30 April 2006: Hi, my dear girl, all you have to do is be yourself, boys are attracted to sincere natural and original girls. You really don't have to put an act on. if a boy likes you it will be for who you really are. Then it will be obvious to them that you... (read in full...)

I'm in love with him but I don't trust him. Should I end it or keep on trying?

Q.   hiya.. ive been seeing my boyfriend a couple of months now..it was going great at first, we enjoyed doing the same things, watching the same films.. I think i am falling in love with him but for some reason i dont trust him anymore!! I dont see the ...

A.   30 April 2006: Hi, A question for you, why do you not trust the boy? has he done anything for you not to trust him? if not, your fears are more than likely to be ingrained in your imagination. Trust is earned through time, you have not been seeing him for too long... (read in full...)

He cares me for like crazy but this grey area is hard for us both!!

Q.   Hello, I really love this guy who also happens to be my best friend. At one stage he said we could never be anything more than friends but now he has agreed to see if there can be something more between us. He says he will renounce the world if som...

A.   29 April 2006: Hi, It seems to me that your friend is playing with your emotions. He is pushing all the right buttons, that is to say, he knows your feelings towards him, You need to be direct, and listen yoour inner self, you know what, I bet that he gets kic... (read in full...)

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