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writes: hiya..ive been seeing my boyfriend a couple of months now..it was going great at first, we enjoyed doing the same things, watching the same films.. I think i am falling in love with him but for some reason i dont trust him anymore!! I dont see the relation ship goin anywhere if i dont trust him, but I want to be with him..he makes me feel special..should I finish him or give it a go? Reply to this Question
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reader, sweetangel23 +, writes (7 May 2006):
you've probably heard this already but if theres no trust there is no relationship. if your having these feelings hes obviously given you a reason not to trust him, it may be time to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): hey hunny. I have always thought trust is the main thing holding a relationship together...its like, if there isn't any trust there isnt a relationship in the first place. However, you are most probably just feeling insecure as you know your true feelings are becoming stronger and you don't know whether it is the same vise versa. Believe me sweetie just give it a go and im sure everything wil turn out just how you want them to. After all...doesn't everybody deserve that chance?xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): hiya..thanx for the advice evry1 ..i realli appreciate it xx confusedfan
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (30 April 2006):
 You don't say why you don't trust your boyfriend anymore. Have you good reason to feel this way? If you have no reason not to trust him why break up with him if you both get on so well.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2006): Why don't you trust him?
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reader, i-love-you +, writes (30 April 2006):
 first of all why do you not trust him? like did he do anything to violate your trust, like what is the reason you dont like him? but if you are falling i love with him then i think that you should still go out with him and then maybe you will learn to trust him! hope this helpd out
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2006): well let me tell u from experience that if u dont trust him, that's a sign that it's not going to go anywhere and there is probably something to not trust him about. go with ur gut on this. do u really want to be in a relationship with someone that ur always going to have doubts about it's not worth the effort or heartache, believe me i know.
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reader, bonym +, writes (30 April 2006):
 My friend, a relationship needs three KEY things to work as well as a host of others, the three key things for me are:1. TRUST2. LOVE3. COMMITMENTLC, without TLC, you cant have a relationship, if you dont trust him, you will always be thinking "what if this" and "what if that" and that is gonna drive you round the twist and right back round the twist again, you dont want that. Yeah he may make you feel special, but you still need TRUST my friend. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2006): well what exactly is he doing for you to lose trust in him? I she acting differently or does he not want to spend as much time with you? You know that healthy relationships are built on trust, so first you need to think about it: is it something he's doing that's making you not trust him or is it you telling yourself he's no good? Either way you should sit him down and talk about it - open him up and together try and find the root of the problem. You should be okay bbz x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2006): well why dont you trust him? and maybe you should talk about the trust thing with him then see where it goes from there, it might make the relationship stronger, or it might end it. you just have to be ready for the results
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reader, Mama +, writes (30 April 2006):
Hi,A question for you, why do you not trust the boy? has he done anything for you not to trust him? if not, your fears are more than likely to be ingrained in your imagination. Trust is earned through time, you have not been seeing him for too long, but long enough to make some kind of assesment of your relationship. He obviously makes you feel like a special girl, just enjoy. xxx
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