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Sneaky Sex: How to avoid awkward situations with the kids!

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30 June 2009: Those Viagra ads are totally misleading! Any idiot can get "in the mood" when two adults are alone in a room (Or in a bathtub!) But with fussy infants, noisy 4 year olds, or prying 13 year olds around, how on earth can ANYONE have the freedom to ...

My husband is going through a midlife crisis. How can I help him?

Q.   My husband is going through some midlife crisis, or just serious depression. He can't see that, or talk about that. But I see him turning more and more bitter day by day. I can't convince him, he thinks I'm critical. He stopped being affectioan...

A.   20 August 2009: "Trying" to talk to him is probably pushing him away. When I went through my MLC, our marriage counselor ENCOURAGED me to take some time off, travel and search for a renewal. He also instructed my wife to back off, let me be, and let things unfol... (read in full...)

My husband is a workaholic!

Q.   /> My husband is a workaholic. We went on holiday to France recently, and even then he couldn't stop working, bringing all his accountancy books with him when we were out at a restaurant, and trying to do business deals over the mobile phone - a co...

A.   6 July 2009: Well, if what you are doing doesn't work, try something different!!! Encourage his work. Talk about what he does. Show a sincere interest in what he does. Get educated about his industry. When he sees you are interested in what he likes, he will ... (read in full...)

Sneaky Sex: How to avoid awkward situations with the kids!

Q.   Those Viagra ads are totally misleading! Any idiot can get "in the mood" when two adults are alone in a room (Or in a bathtub!) But with fussy infants, noisy 4 year olds, or prying 13 year olds around, how on earth can ANYONE have the freedom to ...

A.   6 July 2009: To not see love, affection, or kissing from your parents imprints a child to repeat the behaviors when they are adults. I totally respect the youths opinion on my article and do not judge their parents decision to not show affection publicly... (read in full...)

Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!

Q.   I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed? The only thing...

A.   2 July 2009: Having an affair can be VERY exciting. Of course, that excitement covers a double-edge sword which other people have CLEARLY commented on. Your question of doing it in his bed at home is odd. If the "homewrecker" label isn't already bouncing... (read in full...)

How do people stay away from others they know are bad for them?

Q.   Help me. Besides being a bit of a Well, I cheated. I didn't enjoy sleeping with a stranger. I strongly suspect he was more attracted to my pocket book than to me. I understand now that it was not destiny, but i don't really understand what it ...

A.   1 July 2009: No problem! You have a husband you love and unfulfilled fantasies to address. There is a logical, safe and monogamous solution to your problem. Visit my blog at http://www.makeyourwifehot.com/bragblog and you'll see we (my wife and I) have addr... (read in full...)

Sneaky Sex: How to avoid awkward situations with the kids!

Q.   Those Viagra ads are totally misleading! Any idiot can get "in the mood" when two adults are alone in a room (Or in a bathtub!) But with fussy infants, noisy 4 year olds, or prying 13 year olds around, how on earth can ANYONE have the freedom to ...

A.   1 July 2009: Thanks for the comment. From a kids perspective, I appreciate the readers comments. Anything that creeps you out just does. Parents need to respect that. Showing affection is permissable. Deep embraces may be uncomfortable, but when you are marr... (read in full...)

Although my wife and I are seperating, we still have sex. Is this wrong and will it hurt me in the long run?

Q.   I'm separating with my wife after 18 years together. We have two children, mortgage, but she cheated on me. I forgave her, but she continued with other men, and did some truly slutty things while drunk so it's over, and it's actually her who's ...

A.   30 June 2009: Of all the divorced, separated, and married couples in conflict I can tell you that YOUR situation is more common than a clean, simple break. 18 years is a long time and simply not having sex one day is tough for most people. What are your p... (read in full...)

When will the pain stop? My heart breaks every time I see him

Q.   Vent.....When does the pain stop when the ex husband, who left his family for a 22 year old, when he picks the kids up on his weekend. My heart breaks when the kids leave....

A.   30 June 2009: Pain of loss (especially when you are constantly reminded of him) will be there and is impossible to simply "wish away". However, YOUR mental and physical health are important to you, your children, your friends and family. 1. Do NOT look at hi... (read in full...)

My wife refuses to go to marriage counselling

Q.   My wife said she won’t go to marriage counselling with me: she’s convinced that we have solved all our problems (even though I tell her that I don't believe this is true), and she doesn’t want to talk to a stranger. I’m still going to make an ...

A.   30 June 2009: The stress and trauma of an unhappy marriage is very painful and also temporary. You obviously value the marrigae enough to seek out help. If she does not, then her values are either out of sync with yours or (more likely) she has given up on making ... (read in full...)

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