My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 29 September 2011: Thank you for all your replies. As I said for the most part everything is fine. I dont dwell on this 24/7 and I am certainly not looking for sympathy. As for making my husband suffer, he brings this up more than I do. He sees this man walking the ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 28 September 2011: This is more of a question than a problem...... why is it that some people always get away with it??? It has been three years now since I first posted my problem. It has been a difficult three years in many ways but overall, my husband and I have ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 26 March 2009: Hi, I have had to face how my husband feels about everything, every day since it happened. Do you not think that I have to face the guilt of knowing that I lied to him as well. I suppose the biggest difference between how I feel and how my husband ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 25 March 2009: For your friend I think he at least did the right thing telling his wife,even if he did feel forced into it. At least they can build on a basis of honesty instead of living a lie,plus things always seem to have a way of coming out anyway, so at ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 25 March 2009: I have taken the time to read your replies very carefully, you referred to men like "us" when you were talking about being hounded by woman like me, so I got the wrong impression but that is what you wrote. I understand what you are saying abou... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 24 March 2009: Thank You Star, I agree with what you say and believe me I do try and keep my mind on other things. I think the teacher could have saved his marraige and also did the decent thing by me. I accepted staight away that it was over and did not try to ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 24 March 2009: Can I just say that I have read and taken on board all the replies I have had and not just from Mr Anonymous. I have also said several times that I do regret what has happened very much. I have written two letters to the teacher which was more than... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 23 March 2009: I would also like to add that I am not a constant threat to his career and family. I have no intention of getting even, even though that has been suggested. All I wanted was to simply ask him why? to so many question that I have. But I suppose I ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 23 March 2009: Hi All, thanks again for your replies. To Mr Anonymous, i have not intended to start a witch hunt against the teacher. I am fully aware of my part in what happened and have taken responsability for it. It was nothing like you described, he is older ... (read in full...)
I'm so tired of being a faithful good girl when no one else is!
Q. I have fallen for my boss. He is young, funny, beautiful and very sexy. The problem is that he is married and I already have someone. Recently, I find out that my someone else is seeing somebody too. He has been seeing her for a year.I am so tired ...
A. 18 March 2009: Hi, I am sorry about your boyfriend. If this has happened over and over again and you dont love him then maybe its time to move on from the relationship. As far as your boss is concerned I cant tell you from my own experiance, dont go there. If you ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 17 March 2009: Hi Everyone, Thank you again for your replies. I dont know why it has come back so much. I think it has been a combination of things. I still do get very upset about being used and lied to, I do try not to think of these things but sometimes I just ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 12 March 2009: Hi Eveyone, I am writing again because for the last three weeks I feel like I have had some sort of emotional relapse (for want of a better description). I thought I was doing so well but I feel like all my emotions are coming to the surface and I ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 29 January 2009: Hi Everyone, I would like to say a huge thank you to everyone who has responded to my letter. It has now been 7 months since my affair came out. I still have had no answers or even seen the man in question since the time I confronted him i... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 13 December 2008: Hi Diovanlestat, Thank you for your replies once again. I am feeling much better thank you, I have off days now but its only the odd one compared to before. I am very lucky because of how supportive my husband has been for me,he said he would defend ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy
Q. Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I ...
A. 13 December 2008: Hi Elizabeth, Your last post laid out a lot of home truths. She is absolutely right of course and I really do feel for her. The problem with all these situations is that when emotions get involved sometimes all the good sense we were born with goes ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 13 December 2008: Hi, I think your replies were a little harsh. Firstly I would never do anything to hurt my husband or make him frantic as you said. We have discussed everything to the last detail, I know how he feels and he knows how I feel, he is not frantic ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy
Q. Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I ...
A. 12 December 2008: Hi Elizabeth, Your pain will lessen with time, and your strength will come back. As I said before you will be more wary of men in the future but it still does not mean you wont find someone you can trust again. I agree with you that it is terrible ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 11 December 2008: Hi, I just though I would write in with an update. It has now been nearly six months since it all came out about my affair. My husband and I are still trying to work things through. He has been great really but it is very difficult at times for both ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy
Q. Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I ...
A. 11 December 2008: Hi Elizabeth, I am glad you are finding the posts helpfull. It is helpfull to know you have aleady helped another woman as well. I understand you not wanting to confide in people it is a very difficult thing to do. I have a friend I have had since ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy
Q. Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I ...
A. 9 December 2008: Hi There,I totally understand your feelings at the moment. You must try and take heart though. I do believe you will get over this and find someone good, not all men are like these men we have met. You will be more wary in future of who you meet but ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy
Q. Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I ...
A. 8 December 2008: Hi, please let us know how you are doing now? We are thinking of you. Please remember you are a special person and things will get better. As your other readers said at least he has the wrath of his wife to face so he is not getting away with things ... (read in full...)
Cheating with a married man who used me as his playtoy
Q. Hi to eveyone out there, I have been having an affair with a married man, this is not something I am proud off, we have split up now for a number of months, I feel totally rubbish at my lowest ever point in life, I got close to this man who I ...
A. 3 December 2008: Hi, Can I just say I really feel for you. I was in a very similar situation. We have so many things in common in our situations it was very emotional for me to read your letter. I also met a married man who seemed kind, caring and gentle, he also ... (read in full...)
Both married but infatuated with each other.
Q. I have a friend (guy) was working with me. Both he and I are married, he likes me a lot and once over the phone he kissed me and said he loves me. I kept silent. We both know that we like each other so much. I changed my job and went to another ...
A. 27 October 2008: Hi, I think you should think about how much do you value your marraige. I was in a similar situation and after a long period of time we told each other how we felt, and started having an affair. It has now all come out and has caused utter ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 22 October 2008: Thank you for all the replies I have had they have been helpfull. I think I will go on and try to help others who have been in my position. I feel that this experience has destroyed me as a person. My husband says I am an empty shell compared to who ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 17 October 2008: Hi Becky, thanks again for your reply. My heart is broken because of everything, what i have done to my husband, marraige, the loss of my classes and friends, being treated like dirt by someone I cared for very much. I feel devastated and its all my ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 16 October 2008: Hi Becky, Thank you for your reply. Everything you say is true of course. I am sorry you think I am making things worse, but I have contacted this man only twice and with my husbands knowledge and consent. I am devastated with guilt, shame and ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 8 October 2008: Hi, Thank you for your reply, it is a great help to hear you and your husband have been able to put it all behind you and build a great relationship again. My husband is still sticking by me and has been wonderfull really considering everything. I ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 8 October 2008: Hi, Thank you for your reply, it is a great help to hear you and your husband have been able to put it all behind you and build a great relationship again. My husband is still sticking by me and has been wonderfull really considering everything. I ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 19 September 2008: Thank you once again for your replies, I am finding them very helpfull. I am not going to tell his wife as I would not cause her any pain just to try and get back at him. I am trying so hard to stay strong and I am trying to show my husband that I ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 18 September 2008: Thank you for your replies I appreciate them. I am thankfull that my husband has been so forgiving. During the three to four year period of unhappiness before my affair started he went through what he now says is depression about stress at work, we ... (read in full...)
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