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Can a smaller penis look bigger from a different person's perspective?

Q.   Hi i am about 18 years of age, and I have a question on measurement in penis sizes. When i put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that i am 8 inches. Now the problem is, when i was in MMA the men had to take showers when the session was over. I ...

A.   5 November 2009: Ok, hehehehe. This is a funny question. "it looks bigger then it actually is because you're looking at it in a different viewpoint then you look at yours" What, are you looking at it in your side view mirror? When you measured, I hope you d... (read in full...)

I want help to get over my inhibitions about performing oral on a man.

Q.   Okay, I've never givin a blow job, and im kinda nervous on it cause well i think its kinda nasty to put ur mouth on the guys dick, if u think about it.....anyways i want to but im to shy, and idk how to get over it, i mean part of me wants to but ...

A.   5 November 2009: Just make sure and catch him right after he showers, that will help you lots. If you're smart about it, you can train him to shower before a bj every time. Trust me, you could probably have him jumping through flaming hoops in a tutu to get a bj... (read in full...)

Can a girl get pregnant from dry humping?

Q.   Okay so me and my boyfriend went to the movies on Sunday. And we got caught in the moment so we started dry humping we both had our clothes on though. I ***never*** took my clothes off and neither did he. But when i got home i checked my pants and ...

A.   21 October 2009: LMAO.. No dear, you're not pregnant. What you found in your panties is a natural thing all women do when they get aroused, it's okay. Go to a store you don't normally go to and get a pregnancy test if you're going that crazy. But don't take it at h... (read in full...)

My husband is very dry in bed. What do I do?

Q.   i m female from india in early forties .married ,mother of twon grown up boy and girl,my problem is my sexual desires ,,what my husband never understand he is 14 yr older than me diabetic ,,he is loving and caring but not intrested in physical ...

A.   21 October 2009: Oh wow, I'm so sorry for you. This is a difficult problem isn't it? Is it possible (if you would be interested) to go out and get your physical desires fufilled elsewhere? I've heard of couples where one person was unable or just not interest... (read in full...)

My girlfriend had a one night stand with a professional athelte before we met.

Q.   My girlfriend recently told me that a few months before we met she had a one night stand with a famous professional ball player. She wanted to be open and I think that is a great thing. We have a great relationship, we are madly in love and its ...

A.   21 October 2009: It's funny how we focus on things sometimes and make a mountain out of a mole hill. I'm famous for it and you don't sound much better :) So what, she screwed a celebrity. An athlete at that. Good for her. Big fat hairy deal. You make it sound li... (read in full...)

Why can't my friend be supportive of me as well?

Q.   My friend always has to have things done her way- she always expects me to drive over, pick her up, and go somewhere. For example, she'll say she wants to go to the mall to get a shirt. She only talks about herself- her problems, her life, and so ...

A.   21 October 2009: "I know it's her issue and not me, but why can't she be supportive of me as well?" That's an easy question to answer: Becaue she's a self-centered bitch, that's why. And look at you, still complimenting her and being sweet while you're d... (read in full...)

My girlfriend had a one night stand with a professional athelte before we met.

Q.   My girlfriend recently told me that a few months before we met she had a one night stand with a famous professional ball player. She wanted to be open and I think that is a great thing. We have a great relationship, we are madly in love and its ...

A.   21 October 2009: It's funny how we focus on things sometimes and make a mountain out of a mole hill. I'm famous for it and you don't sound much better :) So what, she screwed a celebrity. An athlete at that. Good for her. Big fat hairy deal. You make it sound li... (read in full...)

He has been separated from his wife for 20 years, but still is unsure about divorce.

Q.   I'm dating my polar opposite. He's swedish, I'm american, he's 62, I'm 30, he's an engineer and I'm an artist that can't seem to hold a job. He's been married for going on 40 years which isn't quite as bad as it sounds as they've been seperated for ...

A.   14 September 2009: To Softtouch and Busy: Thank you both so much for taking the time to reply to my mess. You both made really good points and gave me more to think about. Sometimes it's so nice to get an outside opinion and I can't thank you enough for yours.... (read in full...)

Desperate for answers... please...

Q.   I am a gay woman in a 2 year relationship with my partner. I also have a 5 year old beautiful, intelligent little girl. My partner is extremely strict with my child and only shows her affection when we have company around us. This is hurting me ...

A.   14 September 2009: Oh gosh I'm sorry you're distraught over this whole thing. I saw your update and wanted to point someting out I noticed in your writing: You mentioned she said she hopes you find that supernatural person to love your daughter. That was a nasty thing ... (read in full...)

Each time my boyfriend goes away on a business trip I find condoms in his bag, and we don't even use them!

Q.   My boyfriend of 6 years went on a business trip last weekend. When he came back, I found a receipt for condoms. We don't use condoms. He says he was the one responsible for till slips for the team. but, why would someone try and claim condoms from ...

A.   10 September 2009: I don't think it's unfair for him to come back finding all his belongings on the step with a nice gift box full of condoms in plain view so he's not confused. Do you really need to question how out of line you're being when you know he's been scr... (read in full...)

Desperate for answers... please...

Q.   I am a gay woman in a 2 year relationship with my partner. I also have a 5 year old beautiful, intelligent little girl. My partner is extremely strict with my child and only shows her affection when we have company around us. This is hurting me ...

A.   10 September 2009: I'm not an expert in anything really but I do know one thing for sure: children are so incredibly intuitive to thier surroundings. Your daughter can sense your partner's lack of affection regularly. I think this will inevitably turn into resentment ... (read in full...)

He admits he doesn't love me and it's been a year? Do I stay or go?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. Whilst he behaves in a loving manner and is respectful and caring, he never tells me he loves me, in fact he tells me he doesn't. Should I accept this at face value and leave, or could it be self ...

A.   10 September 2009: I am also in the same boat but there is one thing I've learned about men or at least this man in particular: Most of the time, they don't really know what the hell they want or are feeling. I doubt very seriously he doesn't love you. It's possible ... (read in full...)

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