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My ex seems to be using me as an ego-boost, how do I get through to him that this is not acceptable?

Q.   My ex and I have been split up for 4 months after just under a 2 year long-distance relationship. We agreed to remain friends and have done so, due to the fact we were really close and told each other everything - more than we have told our cl...

A.   31 May 2010: I texted him back as he was upset and needed a friend. I suppose I should have seen through it from the start, but I don't like to think bad of people...yes I guess he has a track record of messing with my head but what if this one time, he was ... (read in full...)

What are his intentions with these mind games?

Q.   Hi Guys. My long-distance boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me on Friday night. It was an amicable break-up, and one I kind of agreed with. I took it well, agreed we needed to go our separate ways and didn't make a fuss as I would do in the...

A.   10 February 2010: The financial aspect I was referring to was the fact we had to 'break up' over the Internet, as it wasn't feasible for he or I to travel 100 miles to do it, or even meet halfway. Can't afford it. He's in a complete mess at the minute, seems re... (read in full...)

Guys: any help for a damsel in distress?

Q.   Hello all. Damsel in distress moment here - would love your guys advice/opinions! My boyfriend of 20 months yesterday suddenly decided he didn't want to be with me any more. The reasons he stated were because I'm too insecure and demandi...

A.   11 January 2010: Original poster here... Forgot to include the fact that we are/were in a long distance relationship. Both in the UK but around 2hrs away from each other.... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a girl my age to be interested in older men? Could they reciprocate?

Q.   I'm 17, and lately I've been into older men (30's-40's). Boys my age just don't interest me in anyway whatsoever. I know this isn't a phase. What I want to know is if this is normal for a girl my age.And also,I would like to know if guys in their...

A.   4 November 2008: I'm in a similar boat. It's really quite normal. I've been on dates with guys that are 25, 26, 28 and 29. They didn't last overly long as there was more emphasis on the physical aspect of things. I'm now seeing a guy who is 12 years older than... (read in full...)

I'm 21 he's 57, is the age gap too much?

Q.   Hi, I am a 21 year old female and I recently met a guy off a dating site and we really have hit it off big time - sexually and spiritually! He's so considerate, loveable and all-over gorgeous and I may be falling in love with him. Trouble is, he's ...

A.   4 November 2008: Hi. I know it's a bit of a cliche but age really is just a number! If you both like each other a lot and are willing to give it a go, then go for it :) Just take it slowly. Good luck x PS. Don't worry about what other people think, you... (read in full...)

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