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I believe this much older guy will only use my friend!

Q.   Hi all. Just a curious question. I have a friend whos 20 dating a 42 year old man with a 15 year old kid.......am i wrong for thinking he's a freak? And now she ses she has feelings for him! Its like dude where do u think this is gonna go? I tell ...

A.   10 September 2008: The 42 year old man is trying to find something in youth that isn't there. The truth is he's being incredibly immature and irresponsible. Nonetheless, your friend is not a victim here either. She is being just as immature and irresponsible. I don't ... (read in full...)

I don't understand why she broke up with me so suddenly with no reason!

Q.   Hello everyone. I left England to study in Sweden for 6 months as part of my university course in january this year. It really was an amazing time. i met people from all across the world, and ended up being extremely close to 4 friends. One of t...

A.   10 September 2008: That is a brutal situation. The fact is, most people have serious intimacy issues. I'm guessing that you got too close to her for emotional comfort and she couldn't deal with it. I recommend talking to her regularly (if she'll let you) so she can ... (read in full...)

He said he loves me, but the emails to his ex say otherwise. How can he love us both?

Q.   hi everyone...recently i was at my guy's place. we were on the computer together, he then had to take a toilet break. So i was alone there on his computer. I saw his private email inbox and out of my curiosity, I checked it. I was shocked t...

A.   10 September 2008: When a relationship is over, the love doesn't just go away. It may be overshadowed by so much pain, but the love isn't supposed to go away. You love who that person is, and nothing can change that. Nonetheless, the idea that he still might want to ... (read in full...)

He cheated on me while drunk and confessed, feeling guilty. Does he love me? How can I forgive him?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years now and have trusted him wholeheartedly. We have always been open and honest with each other with a great friendship and he told me that he could never cheat on me. He recently went on a boys holi...

A.   10 September 2008: having been closely related to a situation like this, I can tell you from experience that: 1.) Yes, I'm sure he still loves you and always did 2.) There is no valid excuse that "I did it because I was drunk." People know what they're doing. ... (read in full...)

He is a terrific bf-I don't want ruin this by becoming lazy and not contributing more.

Q.   I don't want to be selfish when it comes to my relationship with my bf, but he just ends up doing so many nice things with me and planning little days out and all these ideas...I don't want to get lazy and expect him to do everything...how can I ...

A.   9 September 2008: It's time for you to find out what he wants. Discuss this with him. There people out there who enjoy giving for their partner's reaction. He may be doing just fine. Maybe it's the way he's used to showing love. You need to find out how he's feeling ... (read in full...)

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