A past drunken cheat haunts me and I am feeling guilty. Do I tell my fiancee or not?
Q. I am getting married next year to a man who I am very much in love with and we have been together for six years. About three and half years ago I got very, very drunk, so much so that I went home with a guy and woke up the next day to discover we ...
A. 24 November 2006: Having been the person cheated on, I personally would have rather never known. My boyfriend did the same kind of thing earlier this year, and he told me right away... but even though I've forgiven him, I still think about it a lot and it's still ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of over a year cheated on me... Where do we go from here?
Q. Two weeks ago, he moved 1500 miles away to go to through a two month training for his new job. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I love him with all my heart. I've dated a lot of guys and am (still) sure that he is someone I want ...
A. 10 April 2006: I took him to the airport (much too) early this morning...
We were only together for about a day, but it helped us so much.
The meeting at first was a bit awkward, his hands were pretty clammy and sweaty!! But after a while, things started f... (read in full...)
Does my teacher fancy me and I'm wondering...do I love him?? Help me understand my feelings.
Q. I fancy my teacher to bits, I think he might fancy me too but he is a teacher so it’s hard to decide. Everyone says hes a perv but i really like him. I spend evenings with him. He is really clever he loves to hear what i think. We’ve grown really ...
A. 8 April 2006: I think that this happens frequently when you are at this age... you're beginning to feel like you're growing up at 15 and are looking to the future. When I was younger than you, 13, I developed a fascination/obsession with an older man, he wa... (read in full...)
Why does he get to be jealous and possessive, but he's also cheated on me?
Q. I need help! I've been with my man for over a year now. He cheated on me several times in the past. I forgave him because he said he'd stop. I believe him only because he's honest and tells me everything. He even admitted with his own mouth he...
A. 8 April 2006: It's one thing if he only cheated on you once and was serious about working it out. However, it sounds as if this is an on-going thing, and in his mind somehow, he thinks that it's alright to cheat as long as he tells you about it. Quite honestly... (read in full...)
I see my ex bf at work and it's very painful. How do I get over this?
Q. Three years ago I was in a relationship with someone that I really loved. I knew that he really loved me too but there was a lot of drugs involved in the relationship and also other people. Things eventually got totally out of hand and he went ...
A. 8 April 2006: Hi there!
I was in a somewhat-similar situation. I was with my ex for three years, and we worked together throughout that time. The relationship ended badly, and things were EXTREMELY uncomfortable.
I avoided him as much as possible, and ev... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of over a year cheated on me... Where do we go from here?
Q. Two weeks ago, he moved 1500 miles away to go to through a two month training for his new job. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I love him with all my heart. I've dated a lot of guys and am (still) sure that he is someone I want ...
A. 8 April 2006: Thank you for all of your replies! They've been very thoughtful and insightful.
I think that I should emphasize the fact that this is NOT who he is. I know that alcohol isn't a good excuse, but the more that we've talked about this, the more we'... (read in full...)
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