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Is our relationship still salvageble at all?

Q.   I wrote a long thing a bit ago about my ex-boyfriend and our very sudden break up. We were perfect together and totally in love, but then he lost his job and had a total meltdown and we broke up. Coupled with that, he was also afraid/panicked about ...

A.   23 August 2011: Well, I don't think I can simply just ask for it back now. lol He is being very wishy washy in communication. He seems to respond to very casual emails immediately, but the second I mention us getting together for something, even just lunch or a ... (read in full...)

Is our relationship still salvageble at all?

Q.   I wrote a long thing a bit ago about my ex-boyfriend and our very sudden break up. We were perfect together and totally in love, but then he lost his job and had a total meltdown and we broke up. Coupled with that, he was also afraid/panicked about ...

A.   16 August 2011: Thank you so much for your insightful words. It means a lot. This is extremely hard to not talk to him like we used to... but the love that we had is worth fighting for. I saw him over the weekend to get the last of my things out of his hous... (read in full...)

My ex is friendly to me in person, but just ignored a casual text? why?

Q.   Right after the breakup, I got a little nasty..but not too bad. We have to run into each other in town every once in a while. At first I ignored him and he me, but gradually we started to warm up to each other enough to say "hi" (his initiative.) He ...

A.   11 August 2011: 20 minutes isn't that long... maybe he is in a shower or meeting, or busy with something. Trust me, I've been there and staring at the phone for text messages to be returned and a minute can sometimes feel like forever. lol Why did you guys bre... (read in full...)

I told my partner that she smells awful down there and she won't let me go anywhere near her intimately, she is paranoid and her confidence ruined.

Q.   I've done a terrible thing. I have been seeing a girl for around a month and been going out with her for about two weeks. We had a shaky start to the relationship but since then things have been going great. We have been enjoying a great sex l...

A.   11 August 2011: I don't know how much advice this is really going to be, as it may not be what you want to hear... but as nice as someone is, there is a lot more to a good relationship that is going to make it, and biology, mainly pheremones (the scent of a person) ... (read in full...)

He feels like the love of my life...and I just don't know what to do!

Q.   I have lost the man I have loved the most and whom I still think is "the one". We are both 29. We had an instant connection and our relationship was fantastic. We shared so many things in common and really supported one another in each other's ...

A.   4 August 2011: He emailed me!!!! :D It has been a week since we had any communication, and things got pretty heated last week, and today I decided to send him an apology, just to make myself feel better. And he responded!!! He apologized too and said that he ... (read in full...)

He feels like the love of my life...and I just don't know what to do!

Q.   I have lost the man I have loved the most and whom I still think is "the one". We are both 29. We had an instant connection and our relationship was fantastic. We shared so many things in common and really supported one another in each other's ...

A.   29 July 2011: Thanks again for the feedback. I have never loved or felt as loved as I did in this relationship. This is so hard. My children's father was very abusive, so once I got out, it was easy to forget him. This guy had it all and was so good to me and ... (read in full...)

He feels like the love of my life...and I just don't know what to do!

Q.   I have lost the man I have loved the most and whom I still think is "the one". We are both 29. We had an instant connection and our relationship was fantastic. We shared so many things in common and really supported one another in each other's ...

A.   28 July 2011: Thank you to both of you. Can anyone explain what would make a guy who was so head over heals in love change his mind so quickly?... (read in full...)

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