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I tell you, I feel scared and trapped. I'm not sure if I really want to stay with this man.

Q.   I am currently in a relationship of three years, only the last 6 months of which we have been living together, we have had a long distance relationship for almost 18 months. I love the guy and up until recently I have wanted to spend the rest of my ...

A.   12 December 2010: Thanks Boonridge, I guess I just had to hear it from someone...... (read in full...)

I'm in the military and bisexual...big problem!

Q.   Hello everyone. I have gotten myself into a grave situation. I was one of the suckers that fell for serving my country in the military and I am currently carrying out my enlistment. I am about a year from my end of active obligated service and have ...

A.   12 December 2010: This is easy... keep it in your pants until your enlistment is up. Trust me I know how hard it is, but I RETIRED before I did what I wanted to do with those guys I was around. Be careful. Be wise. Finish what you promised the people of the ... (read in full...)

All I want is answers... why???

Q.   ~Listening to Bruno Mars- Talking to the moon~ Hello everyone and anyone. i have a story of well my real life heartbreak. Im 25 years old, goodlooking guy. Never really dated seriously too much. Was always the "player". Until one day i met a guy ...

A.   12 December 2010: I have to agree with Boonridge, move somewhere else, by staying there, you are still holding a candle for this guy, by keeping anything that reminds you of this guy, you are holding that candle and hoping...let it go... He will never come to you. ... (read in full...)

Am I too ugly to be loved?

Q.   im ginger, ugly and fat im 19 and i ust cant get girls to like me they never talk to me and the ones that do talk to me are the ones that just do it as a joke any help please ...

A.   12 December 2010: I'm gonna throw a gay hat into the ring. I used to be "hefty" and noone spoke to me. I think the main reason was that I FELT that I was unattractive, and people felt that from me, especialy those who I wanted to attract. As soon as I dropped a ... (read in full...)

He makes up crappy excuses when I ask to meet up, is it time to dump him?

Q.   He annoys me so much now, it's like he's playing hard to get with me and I'm sick of such childish games when we're into 3 months now. I'm the one who sends the texts and messages, who organizes the dates. He takes more than a day to reply and he ...

A.   12 December 2010: Move on. You will always have that special place in your heart for your, "first". However he seems to be trying to distance himself from you. He may be wanting you to break it off, it would be easier on him. Be the bigger man, contact him, tell ... (read in full...)

I've finally stopped denying that I am gay, but I have zero experience with men!

Q.   Hey guys/gals, So I have a bit of a problem; I've basically lived my entire life in sexual self-denial. I've been with girls, had girlfriends, I've been told I'm good looking, etc ... but I'm gay. I can't deny it any longer and the thought of b...

A.   12 December 2010: I was in a boat a little worse than yours...I didn't have my first experience with a man until I was 37...I finally lost my verginity to a very sweet german prostitute named alex. He was very understanding and helped me with my first experience. ... (read in full...)

How do I make a straight guy love me?

Q.   what do i have to do ??? i am a 16 years old guy,i am a gay and i really love a guy in my school. unfortunately he is straight he is even horny and pervert when it comes to girls...... the problem that i think that he hates me...he only calls m...

A.   12 December 2010: I have to agree with most of the other answers, and that while you may have a crush on this friend, he may be straight, and may not. My reccommendation is that you keep the friendship strong, but not come out to him, yet. There may come a time in ... (read in full...)

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