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I've found the love of my life in a chatroom in Poland and I'm planning to move there to be with her

Q.   Last time I post on here, I had visited an escort. I had visit an escort only once and never again. I decided to get back into dating, but I had no success. One day I joined a chatroom and I happen to meet a Polish woman who lives in Poland over a ...

A.   5 April 2018: I live in San Francisco Bay Area and problem is there is too many single men here. It makes dating hard here too much competition. I have tried Plenty Of Fish, OkCupid and apps like Badoo and Tinder. I have not gotten any dates from there or a any ... (read in full...)

I've found the love of my life in a chatroom in Poland and I'm planning to move there to be with her

Q.   Last time I post on here, I had visited an escort. I had visit an escort only once and never again. I decided to get back into dating, but I had no success. One day I joined a chatroom and I happen to meet a Polish woman who lives in Poland over a ...

A.   2 April 2018: The amount of negativity just show how Americans are and how narrow minded we are. We only see a negative world. No wonder why got Donald Trump in the White House. These posts just proves it. Every American think America is a great country to live ... (read in full...)

I've found the love of my life in a chatroom in Poland and I'm planning to move there to be with her

Q.   Last time I post on here, I had visited an escort. I had visit an escort only once and never again. I decided to get back into dating, but I had no success. One day I joined a chatroom and I happen to meet a Polish woman who lives in Poland over a ...

A.   2 April 2018: Anonymous 123 Let see 31 year old man never been in a relationship. That tells me American women do no want me. It could not be any clear than that. I will move to another country of someone who is willing to accept me. I so done with American wo... (read in full...)

I've found the love of my life in a chatroom in Poland and I'm planning to move there to be with her

Q.   Last time I post on here, I had visited an escort. I had visit an escort only once and never again. I decided to get back into dating, but I had no success. One day I joined a chatroom and I happen to meet a Polish woman who lives in Poland over a ...

A.   2 April 2018: Youcannotbeserious Actually she is the one that want me to move there. She doesn't want to move to USA. She in Poland she has free healthcare, paid vacation, and other benefits that America don't have. She recently mail me a box of chocolates from... (read in full...)

Did hiring a escort make me look bad?

Q.   I'm doing an update since my post "I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?" (I'm 28 now)and have not post anything for few months. Well I hired a escort and done the deed, and I can my experience was not bad as ...

A.   28 October 2014: "Well good luck with a life of escorts." I will! Life too short to try and live the fair tale. Most people here are not paying attention to my replies as I mention my life span is ticking as a disaster looms. On August 24 this year my location ha... (read in full...)

Did hiring a escort make me look bad?

Q.   I'm doing an update since my post "I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?" (I'm 28 now)and have not post anything for few months. Well I hired a escort and done the deed, and I can my experience was not bad as ...

A.   27 October 2014: @ Honeypie: I went through 5 years of college why should I go back to school to try and meet women when it did not work when I attend the first place. That does not make any sense. I have lot of friends and made several female friends so the be ... (read in full...)

Did hiring a escort make me look bad?

Q.   I'm doing an update since my post "I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?" (I'm 28 now)and have not post anything for few months. Well I hired a escort and done the deed, and I can my experience was not bad as ...

A.   27 October 2014: I think you girls/women do not understand that life is too short to wait forever. I did wait. I spent 10+ years of my life waiting and I just got sick of it. I was being this nice person and gentleman and still am. But all it does it causes me to ... (read in full...)

Did hiring a escort make me look bad?

Q.   I'm doing an update since my post "I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?" (I'm 28 now)and have not post anything for few months. Well I hired a escort and done the deed, and I can my experience was not bad as ...

A.   26 October 2014: I probably will be visiting more escorts as I will not be able to meet any girls now. Since I'm done with college I have no place where I can meet women. I don't like going to bars so that is out of the question. So what other places I do have to ... (read in full...)

Did hiring a escort make me look bad?

Q.   I'm doing an update since my post "I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?" (I'm 28 now)and have not post anything for few months. Well I hired a escort and done the deed, and I can my experience was not bad as ...

A.   25 October 2014: This escort offer GFE and she even has an actual job that she does for a living. She works in .......... and holds a ........from University. I hired an escort to experience touch and sex because I have been denied all my life of this natural for... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   14 July 2014: Well I don't know where else to find them. I live in San Francisco so other cities will or might be easier. I cannot go up to someone and say hey are you an escort. Everything is done online these days and since [the site] was shutdown I'm trying to ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   14 July 2014: @ YouWish: The website I was gonna use for escort was shutdown by authorities so now I have to find another site. Not sure where I can find one that is cloest to me. So as of now no escorts. That website has been taken down for a while now.... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   13 July 2014: Actually I met this one girl I'm untreated in and I asked if she wanted to play tennis and we did. It was not a date of course just hang out and play kind of thing. But the next we were to see each other I was going to ask her then. But it seems ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   13 July 2014: Thanks man I'm definitely going with the escort. Women just don't understand how hard a man has it. Turning 28 in two weeks so no more waiting for me I'm going to hire a escort as soon one catches my interest.... (read in full...)

How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.

Q.   Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...

A.   20 March 2014: I did what you guys said and manage to meet one lady just to get the hang of things. I think its a good start. Now the next thing I need to figure out is how I can take this outside the classroom. I know other women but they have boyfrien... (read in full...)

How can I succeed at dating? Because I have decided to try dating, instead of visiting an escort.

Q.   Some weeks ago I posted about seeing an escort as a way to experience intimacy, but several women have replied to my post. I have thought about what they said realize seeing a escort won't fix anything. Today I decide at end of my class to just to ...

A.   20 March 2014: One of the main things bother me is the fact I'm a full-time student on my last semester and living at home and not working at this current time. I read articles online saying this does not go well lot of men out there. It effects me because I feel ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   4 March 2014: @ So_Very_Confused I know if you knew me you probably would slap me, but I couldn't try that Caucasian lady looks were beyond my standards. I think the Indian lady looks were more around My standards. There is lot of guys who chicken out... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   4 March 2014: Well I had a Caucasian lady in my evening class asked if our papers were due which I thought initially was a bit odd because the professor mention it several times the due date. But I see this Indian girl in there who catches my attentio... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   4 March 2014: @ eyeswideopen If that is really the case how come I don't know any or hear any clubs going on. Usually all of us students get emails about clubs. ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   2 March 2014: cold approach is a slang term that is used to describe men approaching women in non social settings such at bus stop, grocery store, coffee shop and etc... For me I feel that approach is pretty much my only way because I don't like clubs, I... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   1 March 2014: I just heard cold approaching is bad and never goes well. I'm not a person who goes to bars and clubs to meet people. It's just not my kind of environment. If I was hot like Brad Pitt then I would cold approach every time but when you are not good ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   28 February 2014: "1. Identify a woman 2. Walk over to her 3. Say , and introduce yourself Thats the basics. The rest is try and fail." I'm not sure if cold approach is a good idea. I'm afraid I might be invading her personal space. I read most women would ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   26 February 2014: "You don't know how because you never tried. Why have you never tried?" Because I don't know where to start. I need an instructional manual to follow and to guide me in the right direction. If only was there a manual.... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   25 February 2014: Problem is I don't know how to flirt and ask anyone out. I really suck at this stuff.... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   23 February 2014: "Well, I don't sit around and wait, but I know most women do sit around and just wait to be approach, and guys don't have the guts to talk to women (look at yourself as a good example of that), so we end up just sitting there thinking no one wants ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   22 February 2014: "Especially if you want marriage and kids." No children for me, I'm going to end my generation. I had one guy told me about marriage and he said its not worth the amount of debt. Marriage laws in the USA give women a ton of power to wipe out muc... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   22 February 2014: "Have you ever heard of Surrogate Partner Therapy??" I have not. I heard of surrogate mothers though.... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   21 February 2014: But what you guys mention I will seek help on that and any therapy I may need. But then again I want you guys to realize its not easy for what I been through. I feel I have been treated like crap. Again I will seek help but I will still see a ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   21 February 2014: If you look at the gender in this world, I have read there is more men than women, so that can lead to a net imbalance. Let me ask you guys some questions. Do you think everyone is equal that everyone has the ability to find love especially ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   20 February 2014: Base on your guys replies it may have touch some of the truth I never considered. But I'm still thinking of seeing a escort just once to experience what sex is like. There have been stories of men who never found anyone, and for someone such as ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   20 February 2014: "WHAT is so scary about a woman?" They might get creep out. I always hear this from men who attempt to ask their girl out and says he is a creep. So I don't want to feel I'm creeping them out. "WHY do you think women are so magical and m... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   19 February 2014: I read online some men who had gone to escort gain some confidence afterwards. You guys think its possible for me? ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   17 February 2014: I have friends so maybe I'm not that anti-social. I make new friends with no problems I just don't approach women or be the first to talk to them. I can randomly say hi to a dude and become a buddy with him. ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   15 February 2014: I have friends and made couple new friends from classes but they are guys. I'm just shy to approach women. Sometime a woman may look at me but I shy out a bit and look away. I do that because in my mind I'm thinking she looking me because I'm awful ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   15 February 2014: Post by jls022 "Please tell me if I'm wrong OP - if you see a girl you find attractive, talk me through your next steps?" Truthfully, I never go and talk to them because I feel in terms of looks they are way out of league. The ones I go for ar... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   15 February 2014: It's not really afraid of failing, its tired of failing. Everyone has a limit. It's like if you trying to put together a desk and if you just cannot do it then you give up and you will call someone who can. Other guys can ask someone out and boom... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   14 February 2014: On the profile I write just a short simple profile. What I read online for every woman there are 10 men so I'm out numbered. So I'm finding online dating is useless I cannot compete. I'm in my last semester in college so trying to meet someone ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   14 February 2014: I agree they most likely won't fully understand what its like to be a guy struggling. That is because they are wired to always to have the men approach them. Then I hear stories that women say they get freaked out or creep out when a guy approach ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   14 February 2014: I been on Datehook Up and nothing. I'm on Plenty Of Fish and I have some view my profile and nothing no messages. So online dating is not gonna work for me. ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   13 February 2014: I think I will go for the escort and I believe it will make me feel better. I know it won't improve dating ability but least I won't have the constant thought what is sex like. If I have to pay $ 300.00 then I will. ... (read in full...)

I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?

Q.   I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...

A.   13 February 2014: No I don't have a fetish of Chinese women I just thought they would be easier to be with than anyone else. Well it just really bothering me because I never had such experience. Sometime it bothers me where I get grumpy a lot and just not myself,... (read in full...)

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