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He slept with me and someone else...should I feel hurt??

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend 7 months ago after a year together because i felt i did not love him anymore despite him being kind, caring and considerate. He adored me but i felt he was too nice. We had our ups and downs as friends since but recently ...

A.   11 January 2009: You are being very unreasonable and unrealistic, considering it was you who broke up with him in the first place. Everyone is either coming into or getting out of a relationship, and during the transition in between relationships - when attachments ... (read in full...)

He slept with me and someone else...should I feel hurt??

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend 7 months ago after a year together because i felt i did not love him anymore despite him being kind, caring and considerate. He adored me but i felt he was too nice. We had our ups and downs as friends since but recently ...

A.   11 January 2009: You are being very unreasonable and unrealistic, considering it was you who broke up with him in the first place. Everyone is either coming into or getting out of a relationship, and during the transition in between relationships - when attachments ... (read in full...)

How do I choose between two men who both love me?

Q.   I have a very big decision to make. I don't know what to do. I am in love with 2 guys Paul and David. I had been going out with Paul for about 12months when i met David. We were going through a rough patch Paul and I. I made friends with David and ...

A.   11 December 2008: If you cannot decide between the two of them, then keep dating and don't commit to either of them at this point in your life. This means that you are not truly in love with either of them. So keep looking. When you fall in love and it grows into ... (read in full...)

What do men like in a woman? A strong woman or a girly type?

Q.   being a young lady growing up in todays society I feel a little confused as to what a womans role is anymore ? or what do men find attractive in a woman ? I am very aware of womens lib and i do support it, but a little part of me can't help bu...

A.   11 December 2008: Man that have a truly masculine core prefer women with a truly feminine core. We are attracted to our opposites, to someone who complements ourselves. Always remember to act and behave like a lady by having good manners and speaking good English; ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her I know that she's having an affair?

Q.   i know my wife is havingan affair with a man where she works, should i tell her that i know?...

A.   23 November 2008: If you want to risk that the affair will end your marriage and lead to divorce, then go ahead and confront her. I don't know how many years you have been married, but if it has been for more than 10 years, I would let the affair fizzle out on its ... (read in full...)

My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?

Q.   My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem ...

A.   23 November 2008: My advice is to focus on other areas of your life. Cultivate new friends and rekindle the friendships you already have. Pursue your hobbies, finish up a project or join a club. The reason he is ignoring you is because he has found someone ... (read in full...)

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