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... Send *atinomusicus a private message | | | *atinomusicus's profile:So I come here often for advice, so I am here again.
This is something that has bothered for me for a long time. I am gay, and I am totally okay with it. But I seem to be very effeminate. I have always thought of myself as masculine, but my friends tell me that they can tell I am gay from far way....
I dress like a guy, and I even sport a beard. Again, I have always viewed myself as masculine, so I am not trying to change because of what people say, but because I feel it is not really me when I act effeminate. Whenever I see a guy on a movie or whatever, I always picture myself as being that masculine.
I know this questions is kinda weird, but what should I do to be more 'masculine"? I need to work on my voice, mannerism, and walk. Please don't tell me is okay to be effeminate and that there's nothing wrong with it and to just embrace it. I am okay with other guys being effeminate, but I just don't feel like I am really me by being effeminate.
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