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I'm a New York girl so I'm a chill type of person, really laid back, but outgoing at the same time. I love meeting new people unless you're an asshole, then you get to see the b*tch come out.

I can spend all afternoon reading a great book or watching a movie at home or hang out on the town with my girls or a special friend*.

I signed up here because I usually have so many questions about relationships and sex. And the people around me just don't seem to have an answer sometimes or if they do, it's crappy advice so I hope to get some sound strong opinions and advice on topics that will sometimes be random, for a friend, or something I'm personally going through.

The guy I'm just starting to date may have given me strep throat. Should I tell him?

Q.   I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got ...

A.   30 November 2012: @honeypie, best answer so far. I agree. Thanks for all the advice guys. Later. ... (read in full...)

The guy I'm just starting to date may have given me strep throat. Should I tell him?

Q.   I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got ...

A.   30 November 2012: @so very confused. Hmmm, interesting. I may have been thinking into this too much, lol. On the flip side, I'm glad its more common than I thought since I never had it before in my life but thanks. ... (read in full...)

The guy I'm just starting to date may have given me strep throat. Should I tell him?

Q.   I have this crush on a guy who I think gave me strep throat about a month ago when we hung out. How do I tell him? What if I'm wrong? I met this guy this past summer at an event. He body painted me and we became friends on facebook and I finally got ...

A.   30 November 2012: Thanks so much @fishdish. I never get sick, like, at all. So I panick when I do. Plus, my friends and family kept asking who I've been kissing recently which made me suspicious.... (read in full...)

Do I need to stop flirting with female friends?

Q.   Hello, i am feeling guilty because i talk to a girl online through facebook, skype and sometimes over xbox live and i think she likes me where as i just flirt because i like it. i do not mean to sound bad here but i do not find her at all physically ...

A.   30 November 2012: Yes, stop flirting. Especially if its dirty talk. Treat those you dont find sexually attractive like one of the bros. Trust me, its kinder and leading a female on, that MAY feel in a much stronger way than you do has grave consequences. Ever seen ... (read in full...)

My same-sex best friend is in love with me, and I don't feel the same.

Q.   Here goes, I think that my best friend is in love with me. Today, she posted something on my facebook wall and it just did it. We are both female, I'm 19 and she is 20. We both used to be really close friends, until she moved about 400 miles ...

A.   28 April 2011: "When she left to go home, I left her a message saying I missed her already and I looked forward to her coming back." I think that was the lead on for her to keep giving you sexual advances. I mean you don't want to push a friend away but once they ... (read in full...)

When a woman is being friendly towards a man, why does the man take it as a sign she is interested in them romantically or sexually? Is this all men think about?!

Q.   Why do men think that just because a woman is being friendly towards them that we are actually interested in them romantically/sexually etc?? Anyone can answer, I don't care. So I'm on facebook commenting on a guy's status not because I'm into him ...

A.   27 April 2011: CaringGuy, I think you may be right about the types of guys I associate myself with and Trancedrhythmear, I don't think he's a pervert, I just didn't mean to make him think I was interested. I have no clue what saying "LOL" on his status or liking a ... (read in full...)

When a woman is being friendly towards a man, why does the man take it as a sign she is interested in them romantically or sexually? Is this all men think about?!

Q.   Why do men think that just because a woman is being friendly towards them that we are actually interested in them romantically/sexually etc?? Anyone can answer, I don't care. So I'm on facebook commenting on a guy's status not because I'm into him ...

A.   27 April 2011: Well, he's been my friend for a while to the comment below me and he tried to hang out with me last year too and I told him "I have a man that I'm very much in love with just so we were clear" but he says "why does it have to be about that, I just ... (read in full...)

Is he only playing games with me?

Q.   what does it mean when a guy says that we can see each other when our schedules allows? Just wondering because I was dating this guy but somehow I think he only wanted me for sex. Like, he would call me Saturday and ask if we could go movies ...

A.   27 April 2011: Let him go. There are plenty of men out there that aren't for playing games like he is, trust me. And the way he responded to not calling you, he sounds like a jerk. Instead of throwing the fact that you have kids in your face, he should be seeing ... (read in full...)

I think my Dad's having an affair

Q.   i think my dads having an affair. My parents have been married for 15 years,they argue reguarly and iv been thinking for the last 2 years that they were going to split up but they havent.The other day my dad was out and he'd left his phone charging...

A.   27 April 2011: I agree with libra1963, I know it's your mom and you don't want her to get hurt but you have to understand that this is your parents relationship and they have to work out there problems together. I know it must be hard looking at him because of ... (read in full...)

Too shy to call

Q.   so im 16, never had a girlfriend, but i finally found a girl that i like a lot and cant stop thinking about. Im pretty sure she likes me, but its so hard to tell how much she does. I go to an all boy school and she goes to an all girl school, and we ...

A.   27 April 2011: Girls like guys with confidence. It's sexy and attractive. Just take control next time you see her. Show her a grand romantic gesture or ask her out to dinner and a movie or a picnic or whatever 16 year olds' do for fun, just wear a condom, no, I'm ... (read in full...)

She told me that her ex's looked better than mine??

Q.   Quick question for the guys. And unfortunately this has happened to me so thats why im asking. What would you do if you recently started dating a girl that you really liked and she really liked you back and during a conversation she told you that ...

A.   27 April 2011: As a female, I think that's f'cked up, if you asked her to tell you or not. If my boyfriend had the nerve to tell me his last girlfriend's ass was fatter than mine, I would be out looking for a new boyfriend. She seems like she doesn't give a f*ck ... (read in full...)

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