Nice guys always finish last?
Q. Hi all, This question has been tearing me apart time and time again. Please bear with me, as this will be a long post. Is it true that, no women will ever want to be with a nice guy? I don't consider myself 100% nice, I am not overly r...
A. 4 August 2008: No, they don't! I'm so happy I've finally found a loyal, faithful wonderful loving man. I dated one 'jerk' in the past and don't know why I stuck with him for so long. Lots of us have issues, and we've had things we've had to work through - the key ... (read in full...)
He lied about how many sexual partners he had. Why?
Q. Hi - advise needed. Well by boyfriend told me 3 yrs ago that he had only ever slept with 1 other person (his ex of 1 yr) before we started dating, now hes telling me he slept with 6 other woman before me!!! Im confused about how i now feel. I nev...
A. 28 November 2007: Hiya, I think the big thing is whether or not you love him enough to try to work on this/ forgive him and move on. I can only really speak for myself and my own relationship and even though I know there are things that we both need to work on and w... (read in full...)
Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?
Q. Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc...
A. 28 November 2007: I agree with all the above. My bloke has a picture of his ex showing part of her underwear in an old photo album, even though I know he's forgotten about it this has reminded me how much it niggles at me and I am goin to ask him to chuck it - which ... (read in full...)
22 year old virgin. What can I do?
Q. I am 22 years old and still a virgin. My friends think it's very strange and laugh at me. Are there other women in the same situation? Even my bf was turned off when I told him? How do i get him back?...
A. 28 November 2007: Hello, I just want to tell you that you are not strange at all, I myself was not much younger when I lost my virginity and a couple of friends of mine aged 25 and 26 still have not. We are not wierd at all and are pretty cool people! My boyfriend at ... (read in full...)
I'm turning into a distrustful, pscho-girlfriend... how can I stop?
Q. Hello - first time using this site, and am hoping for some good advice please :-) My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 and a half years and bought a flat together about 9 months ago as we were so happy together. However, we have recently...
A. 22 November 2007: Thank so much you for your insightful reply, it is quite an eyeopener to think of this as one and the same thing and I think you are right there and in a strange way it's kind of reassuring that there is this reason behind what I'm doing.It's ... (read in full...)
He lied about how many sexual partners he had. Why?
Q. Hi - advise needed. Well by boyfriend told me 3 yrs ago that he had only ever slept with 1 other person (his ex of 1 yr) before we started dating, now hes telling me he slept with 6 other woman before me!!! Im confused about how i now feel. I nev...
A. 22 November 2007: Hello, Im not sure how much help this will be but I have found similar things with my boyfriend who I love and have been with for a year and a half. He has lied about very small things like watching porn or what he spent some money. Personal... (read in full...)
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