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... Send *ingu a private message | | | *ingu's profile:I am female, 31 and I live in Cambridgeshire with my two guinea pigs - Korban and Kingu. Yes I have borrowed Kingu's name for my log in name as he is the wisest of the two piggies. I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend of Three and a half years and have had a somewhat bizarre career history. I started out as pet portrait artist and then became well known as a male nude artist. I left the art world behind to become a acupressure massage therapist which I did successfully for about a year before finding my true occupation as a Professional tarot reader. |
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Was he just being nice, did I make a fool out of myself, or does he want to see me again?
Q. Hi all, I've met this guy at a party that I recently went to and we hit it off immediately. He is a very close friend of my friend C. I really liked him right from the start but I didn't really think of it much, but we started to talk a little bit ...
A. 5 September 2015: I think you had what many of us romantic women would deem the perfect date and I am positive by the sound of it you really made a connection. But I get the feeling from what you said that it is one of those ships passing in the night moments. ... (read in full...)
I hit my wife. What can I do now to make her realize that I'm sorry?
Q. I need help. My wife and I have been in heated arguments near the beginning of our marriage (we're going on 6 years) which led to abuse. Both physical and emotional. I love her to death and can't imagine ever losing her, she is the best thing t...
A. 4 September 2015: What you did is very wrong and will cost you dearly there is not doubt about that. Anger management I think, is a must have. You must get your temper under control. But I also would day you must have been very angry to hit someone you love so much ... (read in full...)
He's a great friend, but kind of a bad date
Q. I had been seeing this guy on and off for about 6 months. For various reasons, I thought he might eventually be ready for a real relationship but I finally came to my senses and realized that it will not happen. The last time I saw him (about t...
A. 4 September 2015: you said "we both knew that it wouldn't happen between us." How sure are you about that. Given the way he is acting are you sure he didn't agree to save face? The male ego is a very fragile thing and saving face is very important to them. It could ... (read in full...)
If he's tired of social media then why is he still following me?
Q. I am curious as to why a guy I was talking to would suddenly delete all his social media accounts without good explanation. His shabby excuse was because he just didn't feel like dealing with it. Yet prior this he was constantly on facebook and ...
A. 4 September 2015: I am not saying anything for certain, I may be completely off the mark but I think he has a girlfriend at home who stumbled upon his facebook page and now he is in big trouble and deleted everything to cover his tracks.... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my friend's Bf. How to deal with this and stop feeling jealous?
Q. I have a huge crush on my friends boy friend and I'm trying to avoid from getting jealous,but every time I go home I start crying.can someone help me with my problem or help me avoid getting jealous?I want to tell her that I like him but I'm scared ...
A. 4 September 2015: Please do not think I am being heartless, I myself have had more than my fair share of lusting after forbidden fruit but you said "crush" and "like". You are a sensible woman and you couldn't bring yourself to use the word love because that is not ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated, lied and even slapped my face once. How do I stop wanting to go back to him?
Q. dear cupids, really i need help. i am now overly happy, excited, and boosted with energy. what did i do? i simply watched some videos of my ex-boyfriend, in his car, in his house, mostly with his family members. my heart is just racing with...
A. 4 September 2015: The first thought I had would be you should get rid of those videos. You are using them as a crutch or security blanket. You are not going to beat this need for him unless you stop constantly reminding yourself of him and going to this video when ... (read in full...)
I feel trapped and stressed - I need words of wisdom.
Q. Hi, I feel trapped and I am pretty sure I shouldn't be feeling this way. I am on a gap year and whilst travelling fell in love. This guy is so genuine and has fallen for me completely. I also fell for him but I don't think as hard... past ...
A. 4 September 2015: I am thirty one and I am only just now finding my footing in this world. It took me ages to get here, I went through dozens of jobs before I found the right niche for me. It took me years to find the man I am with now and we have been together three ... (read in full...)
Seeing a picture of my ex with a new girlfriend makes me feel like I've been punched in the Tummy!
Q. I was with my ex for 8 years. We broke up around 18 months ago, it wasnt a nice break up but we cut all contact and havent spoken to him since. He pops into my head every now and then but thats all. A few months after we seperated i met someone ...
A. 26 November 2014: I think the punched in the stomach feeling you have is Fear. You were with your ex for eight years so that must have been a very committed relationship and it came to an end. Now you are once again happy, in love and in another committed ... (read in full...)
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