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If I can sleep through my husband's nocturnal fondling could I not also sleep through a home invasion?

Q.   I found out one morning my husband was rubbing my butt in the middle of the night to attempt to wake me but I was sound asleep through the whole rubbing ordeal. He told me the next morning but it worries me that if when he's working one night an...

A.   6 January 2013: Is this a fetish thing? Men touching their girls/wives while there asleep?... (read in full...)

If I can sleep through my husband's nocturnal fondling could I not also sleep through a home invasion?

Q.   I found out one morning my husband was rubbing my butt in the middle of the night to attempt to wake me but I was sound asleep through the whole rubbing ordeal. He told me the next morning but it worries me that if when he's working one night an...

A.   6 January 2013: Alarm system sound good but not sure if I am allowed to install one in a apartment building? If I am any good alarm companies in the US?... (read in full...)

Please help a young marriage before it becomes another divorce statistic

Q.   I'm only 19 and my husband and I just got married when we got married I was 8 months pregnant with our twins. Our twins are now 6 weeks old and he does even seem like he loves me. I don't want us to get a divorce my parents were and so is his. I ...

A.   6 January 2013: Maybe marriage counseling is the answer it helped me and my husband a ton... (read in full...)

No GF, I am a virgin and I failed college. My self esteem is at an all time low. How can I gain confidence?

Q.   I am finding it very hard to like myself right now. I flunked out at college, I am a virgin and I have never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I have accomplished nothing and feel that I never will. I will be turning 22 in a few days and I don't ...

A.   5 January 2013: Are you interested in sports? Join a club or sports team. Think positive. Just because you're a virgin and school didn't work for you doesn't mean you've failed life. Maybe you need a vacation.? Take a weekend away in a hotel and go to some club... (read in full...)

He's asked me to sign a Pre-nup! It made me Soooo Mad. Should I just sign the thing?

Q.   So my boyfriend of 3 years is in the US Army and on Skype one night he told me to go to my front door. He had someone go write on my front porch step "will you marry me?" And the ring box sitting there with a vase of flowers. When I went ba...

A.   4 January 2013: Sign it. You don't want to pay his bills if there is a death or divorce. And he doesn't want to pay your bills either..... (read in full...)

My girl friend is bi-curious and wants a three-some.I'm not sure. Can I have advice on this?

Q.   Hi everyone, new member here in need of some help! Background: Me (22), GF (19) Been together since Nov 2012, already in love. Lost my virginity to her (saving myself for someone special, she didn't know I was), she has now had 6 sexual partner...

A.   4 January 2013: Build your relationship then in 6 months rediscuss it.... (read in full...)

What can I do to relax and cope and overcome my fear of sex with my husband? We love each other and he is a good husband.

Q.   hi, i am a married girl. My husband loves and cares for me. he is a very good husband and i too love him a lot. but the problem is i am scared of sex. i will get scared of pain. whenever we want to have sex, i will become scared and then we cant...

A.   4 January 2013: Why are you so afraid? Did something bad happen in the past to you? I would say just start with him massaging you one evening while you're nude. This is a huge turn on for most men including my husband. And once you feel relaxed then he may be able... (read in full...)

Does my BF have to wear a condom? I'm on the pill, and neither of us has STIs.

Q.   So i've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we've talked about having sex when I stay at his at end of this month. Thing is, he doesnt want to use a condom. He has been checked and has no std's and neither do I. I'm also on the pill. Is it ok ...

A.   3 January 2013: I'm 3 months pregnant and I was ON birth control when I got pregnant. The pill is NOT a 100% fail safe. You're very young don't risk it. Use protection!... (read in full...)

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