Does he like me or my friend?
Q. I'm Elizabeth. I am totally in love with this guy. The problem is that my best friend loves him too. He gives us mixed signals... for instance One day I went up to him and asked him to wish my best friend a happy birthday. He told me "Actuall...
A. 23 June 2010: Firstly, this could be complicated & you should always go with what your gut tells you. Obvously I dont know the whole situation but from what your saying it sounds like he probably likes you. Sometimes guys flirt with girls around you to get your ... (read in full...)
I know you can't tell me WHO to choose, but HOW can I choose between two great girls?
Q. Alright, so I've got a "happy" problem; there are two girls who like me. Some time ago I asked a girl out. We'll call her Brunette. She couldn't go on our first date; she had work. She couldn't go on our second date; she had to babysit. And she coul...
A. 22 June 2010: Wow, yeah It's safe to say that was sightly confusing, but I'm used to confusing situations so heres what I think. You should choose the girl that makes you feel happiest. The one that you can just goof around with & have a good time with. I know ... (read in full...)
Why can't my boyfriend see sex is not important?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8-9 months and we have sex occasionaly but my boyfriend is always horny but I have trouble getting wet. He thinks that I don't want to have sex with him but I really do. I just can't. When we do have sex it ...
A. 22 June 2010: Guys produce large amounts of testosterone, especially during puberty. This hormone increases their sex drive, so for him this is natural, but it doesn't mean you should 'pretend' that you want to have sex with him. This is something that should be ... (read in full...)
Age difference...
Q. problem!!! hes 18 and im 15 but im turning 16 right after he turns 19 ... and i was wondering whether it was a bad age difference you know... is it really? like im too mature (from what everyone tells me ) and so is he. no sex involved cause im ...
A. 21 June 2010: Firstly, I really respect your idea of saving yourself until marriage, & I belive you should always stick with that. & the age difference shouldn't get in the way too much (If he was any older then I wouldn't recomend it.) But you sound like a ... (read in full...)
Would it be weird to ask her out?
Q. Well I'm fifteen and I work in my dads shop and this girl whos 21 works in there aswell, we really really get along and we flirt all the time and I'm starting to like her a bit more than a friend, would it be weird to ask her out ?...
A. 21 June 2010: I know you were probably hoping for people to agree with you asking her out but you have be realistic in some sense. I kind of have to agree with the other comments. I compleatly understand that you have feelings for her, but there would be less ... (read in full...)
How can I understand him?
Q. Hey there, I'm really infatuated by this boy right now, but I cant seem to understand him. Sometimes I cant help staring, and he responds by glaring at me with squinty eyes and a mean look. Other times if i start accidentaly talking too loud, he'll ...
A. 21 June 2010: Boys can drive you crazy at the best of times can't they! But the fact that he stares at you in class is showing you that he's probably interested. I would advise not showing off to get his attention though, Often the best way to do this is to ... (read in full...)
Is there a manual for dating a librarian?
Q. Hello, I am on summer research at a school far away from mine. I regularly use the library here, and have noticed one of the librarians who checks out books is very nice and also attractive. I would like to approach her and ask her out or just ...
A. 21 June 2010: I understand your problem, because it seems hard to 'break the ice' with someone you don't really know. But in fact it's not as hard as you think. Firstly I would just try smiling at her, it will make you seem friendly, confident & approachable. ... (read in full...)
Not sure how I feel about my ex...
Q. I don't know how I feel about my ex lately. I thought I loved him but now I'm not sure because if I want to get over him how could I love him? How can he say he cares so much about me and how I complete him but his actions don't match his words? I ...
A. 21 June 2010: Right, first of all it's perfectly healthy to feel the way you do, & it's totally natural to have feelings for an ex- You know each other well & feel relaxed in eachothers company. But the truth is It can be hard to get over someone, & it can take a ... (read in full...)
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