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My Mom thinks it'll be eaiser to break up and stay friends, but it's not that easy!

Q.   I am 13, and am obviously unsure of my sexuality and who i like etc etc. but i do have a girlfriend. She has had girlfriends before and is more serious than i am, and everything has been fine until recently when my mum found out. My mum is not ...

A.   1 December 2008: In any relationship, no matter what, you should consider the other person first and formost. Think if you really like/love your girlfriend and if you are with her out of love or pity, or just to make her feel better. Being in the same friend group ... (read in full...)

I've never felt him cum, so how do I know when he is ??

Q.   I've been with only a few men, sexually and before the boyfriend I have now, I've never had an orgasm with foreplay or during sex. I realized that I just wasn't comfortable enough with the partners I had before. I was finally lucky enough to find ...

A.   1 December 2008: Thanks for all your replies. Still can't feel him, but we've got a communication thing we do now. :)... (read in full...)

Any ideas from the girls on sexy underwear?

Q.   hi all. i am 19 and have a healthy sex life with my bf however our anniversary is coming up and we have decided 2 wait until then 2 make it extra special, weve rented a hotel room. he wants me 2 wear a corset style seductive outfit which im all up ...

A.   10 January 2008: Actually, being a regular partaker of medival fairs, and commonly seen in costume at them, I hope I can help some. Mostly corsets are made to be worn WITHOUT a bra, seeing as corsets were made to support women back ages ago. If you find the right ... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose him! Can you help?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I have been hurt in the past with other relationships so in the early part of my current relationship, I kept my "options" opened (my fault) but saw how amazing of a man my boyfriend is and ...

A.   12 December 2007: This is a hard one, and it's kind of happened to me before. (For ages, I felt like there was 'something better' out there with all my boyfriends and I'm thankful I'm free of that now.) If thats how it is with you? Well give him a bit of time, ... (read in full...)

What's preferrable: big boobs or small boobs?

Q.   So, what do guys prefer?? big boobs or small boobs?? Personally ive got big boobs so knw how guys react to them. But really wats better?? xxx...

A.   10 May 2007: Most guys don't care either way. Its like asking someone how they take there coffee or how they like their steak cooked. Everyone has a different 'preference' for a lot of things. Don't you like a certain hair or eye color over others. Don't ... (read in full...)

Do girls find guys with body hair unattractive? I am a little worried. Any advice?

Q.   Dear anyone who could help, I am a tad bit on the hairy side in this hairless body civilization we live in. I am not overly hairy, just more than most guys out there these days. And i am especially embarrassed because my rear end is hairy. Please...

A.   30 April 2007: All women are different. Some don't mind more hair, some do. Some don't care either way. I'm one that it doesn't bother me either way. Don't let it bother you too much though. There is nothing wrong with having a little more hair than someone ... (read in full...)

I'm not comfortable with my user name on this site...how do I change it?

Q.   How do I change my name on here. The one i have sounds a bit heavy. I'm not comfortable with it. thanks...

A.   29 March 2007: I'm not sure if there is a way, but maybe try to just make a new account.... (read in full...)

How can I stop being so nervous when I have to read something aloud in school?

Q.   I get really nervous when I have to read something out at school how can I stop that?...

A.   27 March 2007: I had this problem at school pretty severely. I had a speech impediment when I was a child and had to go to speech/reading therapy for around 6 years before the problem was aversely fixed. But even after this, I was still terrified of speaking ... (read in full...)

He likes me a lot but I am thinking...is he "too keen too soon'? What do you all think?

Q.   Hello I'm 33, female and single! Have had so many ups and downs in relationships - tend to always attract the "bad boys"..... Anyway, have just met a nice man via online dating....and he ticks so many boxes in terms of what I want in a relat...

A.   22 February 2007: I see no reason to not give him a fair chance. Let him be 'keen' if hhat is what he is, no harm unless he makes you feel uncomfortable, which if that is the case, you may try discussing it with him. And, as far as being afraid, its normal. He's ... (read in full...)

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