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*ali-Mah
writes:I've been with only a few men, sexually and before the boyfriend I have now, I've never had an orgasm with foreplay or during sex. I realized that I just wasn't comfortable enough with the partners I had before. I was finally lucky enough to find a man I was completely comfortable enough to be with on more than just a physical level. But the question I have is this: Women always say they can feel when their man come's but I have never been able to feel when a man comes in me ever. Not at least, until afterwards when we move and I feel it dripping from me. I've told my boyfriend this, that I can't feel it when he comes in me, but it seemed like it didn't bother him. But there have been a couple times, when he's really tired or stressed out, that he didn't come. How do I know when he's getting close to coming, should I ask him to give me some signal or something? I guess that would be two questions I need answered.
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reader, Kali-Mah +, writes (1 December 2008):
Kali-Mah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your replies. Still can't feel him, but we've got a communication thing we do now. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): i've been a few people sexually and can never really tell through feeling if a guys about to come. i can always tell by their actions. the guy i'm currently with throws his head back and can't make any noise. a lot of guys i've been with will get really stiff and find a position with their hips up. after he's done i can always tell cause he'll sit there with his eyes closed and a big smile on his face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): First give him a bj thats what i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): It feels like a warm jet when my boyfriend cums inside me, and he always cums alot. I like to feel it dribbling out of me, especially the next day when I am at work I can still feel some dripping out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): i can feel when my man cums in me. he gets big and then pulses jet after jet of cum deep in me. i luv it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Thats a really hard question, but some woman can feel their men and some cant.
Its a degree of how tight a woman is and how hard a man pulsates.
Normally you can tell if a man is getting close by his actions more that whats happening in between your legs. I can feel my boyfriend come inside me because he is actually very large and the pulsing is what I feel.
With my last partner I couldn't tell because he frankly wasn't big enough and had no real pulse when he came even when i gave him a hand job.
I wouldn't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): i will be honest with you i have only ever had one sexual partner and we have been together for 4 years now, we have the best sex life i could ever wish for, although i have never felt him come inside of me although i can tell by his breathing and movement when he is about to, if you can't find any signs that your boyfriend is about to come then yea ask him to tell you. Hope i am of some help x
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