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Husband caught playing "sexual chicken" now what?

Q.   I've been married to my husband for over a year. Two months ago I found a sexually explicit text on his phone (I wasn't snooping, it displayed the text when I plugged his phone in the charger. You can bet I snooped after that, though). It was from a ...

A.   29 July 2011: I'm so sorry about your marriage, it sounds to me that your husband maybe seeing this woman. He told you that it was just a game of "sexual chicken" you expressed to him it hurt you and he goes behind your back and does it again. If it were just a ... (read in full...)

Worried all the time bout relationship

Q.   I got this problem which is really annoying. I'm always terrified that my girlfriend is going to dump me or stop loving me. Even the smallest action sends me into worrying and i have to physically stop my self from calling and txting her all the ...

A.   29 July 2011: You have to learn to trust her because after a while your insecure actions will get the best of you and ruin your relationship, and you may lose her. If she never gave you a reason not to trust her, then you have nothing to worry about. Dont let ... (read in full...)

Why did he move on so fast after he said he wanted to be single?

Q.   I was dating this guy for a little while not that long then he broke up with me saying i became too clingy and that he doesn't want to be with anyone for a while but it has been two days i called him and he had someone over and he hung up in my ...

A.   29 July 2011: Maybe the situation between the two of you was too much for him. Maybe he said you were clingy because things were moving faster than he wanted them to. If he tells you he is just sleeping with her, its probably the truth he has no reason to lie i... (read in full...)

Will I ever meet someone who won't cheat on me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I just broke up two days ago. Prior to this we were having some problems, but we talked about it and things seemed to get better.Three nights ago was our anniversary,he never gets weekends off from work, but he requested off. At thw ...

A.   28 July 2011: The encouraging words you guys have been giving me have been really useful.I try to tell myself he is no good for me and rite now I still feel nothing but sadness and anger when I think about him. Everytime I talk to him he says it was an accident, ... (read in full...)

I want to get back with my ex, but he continues to test me by dating other people...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating since April 2010. it has always been a little rough because we are quite different and we would fight quite a lot. About two months ago a friend of mine just moved back into the area and her and decided to hang...

A.   27 July 2011: This guiy you are talking about seems so immature. It seems to me that he is playing with your head First he tells you he can date others but you cant. Then he tells you, you can date others but dont sleep with them. You need to give this guy an ... (read in full...)

Is he worth fighting for? He said he doesn't want a relationship.

Q.   So. Hey everyone. Here's my story. I know this guy since about three years and I've had a number of crushed on him since about a year and a half ago. I never acted on them because I had a boyfriend at the time but no matter how strong I fought t...

A.   27 July 2011: If he sasys he doesn't want a relationship then that is what he means. If you continue to hang out with him on a daily basis, sleeping over, and hooking up eventually you will find yourself in love with this guy.And by then he may or may not change ... (read in full...)

I want to be with him so bad but I don't know if I should go back on the roller coaster ride...

Q.   My boyfriend and i has been broken up for 2 weeks now. I've been through a hell of a lot of bs with him. From him cheating on me multiples of times, hiding our relationship from 2 dozen of females on facebook, lying to me a lot, disrespecting me, ...

A.   26 July 2011: It is up to you, if you are ready to go through the same crap again, beacause if you get back with him he might just cheat on you again, and talk to girls on facebook. I weent through a situation so similar to yours recently and I decided to not ... (read in full...)

Will I ever meet someone who won't cheat on me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I just broke up two days ago. Prior to this we were having some problems, but we talked about it and things seemed to get better.Three nights ago was our anniversary,he never gets weekends off from work, but he requested off. At thw ...

A.   26 July 2011: I appreciate all the positive feedback and I am trying my hardest to not think about it because everytime I do, it brings me to tears. Thank you guys for the advice... (read in full...)

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