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How come it's much harder for a man to to find someone to cheat with?

Q.   Statistics show that the number of both attached men and women that cheat on their significant other are about equal. If this is true, how come it's much harder for a man to meet a woman to cheat with than it is for a woman to find a man to do the ...

A.   30 July 2011: Thank you for all your responses. The stats I refer to are from a news report I saw on TV a few days ago. When I said men were looking for women to cheat with, I meant to fill a viod in their lives, not just because they were horny. If men are just ... (read in full...)

She wants to be FWBs, and I suffer from Premature Ejaculation... how should I let this play out?

Q.   A female friend and myself, who seldom see each other, have been texting each other quite often for a while now. In recent months the texts have got more and more flirty until the other evening the subject of sex cropped up when my female friend ...

A.   7 February 2011: Go and meet with her, see what happens. If things get hot and heavy, just go with it. Try not to think about your PE, that will just make it worse. Just relax and go with the flow. You never know, you might just not PE at all, as long as you ... (read in full...)

After cheating and splitting up from partner, will any other woman have trust in him?

Q.   I would like to know how hard it is for a man that has cheated on his wife/gf and split up with her to find another partner? Will any woman trust him? How soon should he tell the potential partner his story? How much detail should he giving her and ...

A.   7 February 2011: Yes I am very unhappy in my marriage, but can't bear to break up my family. Unforunately, I got laid off my job recently and my wife is starting culinary school next week, so I have to take care of my daughter everyday, all day for the next few ... (read in full...)

After cheating and splitting up from partner, will any other woman have trust in him?

Q.   I would like to know how hard it is for a man that has cheated on his wife/gf and split up with her to find another partner? Will any woman trust him? How soon should he tell the potential partner his story? How much detail should he giving her and ...

A.   5 February 2011: Thank you for your honest answer Cheeks, I appreciate it (I appreciate evryone elses also). You're probably right to say that I'm a coward. I'm always so afraid of what other people will think of me when and if I seperate from my wife. I could never ... (read in full...)

After cheating and splitting up from partner, will any other woman have trust in him?

Q.   I would like to know how hard it is for a man that has cheated on his wife/gf and split up with her to find another partner? Will any woman trust him? How soon should he tell the potential partner his story? How much detail should he giving her and ...

A.   2 February 2011: To LoveGirl: I am not going to give up my daughter for anyone at all, that was a stupid idea and it was only out of desperation I said it. I don't want to find another woman to cheat on my wife again. I want to make a clean break and start fresh. I ... (read in full...)

After cheating and splitting up from partner, will any other woman have trust in him?

Q.   I would like to know how hard it is for a man that has cheated on his wife/gf and split up with her to find another partner? Will any woman trust him? How soon should he tell the potential partner his story? How much detail should he giving her and ...

A.   2 February 2011: Thank you for your answers so far. What do I do if the new gf asks, I want to honest and open with her. Do I deflect the question, if I do then she may think that I don't trust her. Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship, I ... (read in full...)

I cheated, fell in love, and screwed up my life. Now what to do?

Q.   Almost 2 years ago I cheated on my wife. I meet someone on a chat site and fell in love with her (long story). Less than 2 months into the affair my wife catch me. I broke it off with the other woman eventhough she begged me to ran away with her ...

A.   26 January 2011: In answer to Gamine: I am not like a teenager chasing around puppy love. My mistress told her hb that she doesn't love him anymore and will be talking to other men. They sleep in separate rooms and she is getting ready to leave him once she has ... (read in full...)

I cheated, fell in love, and screwed up my life. Now what to do?

Q.   Almost 2 years ago I cheated on my wife. I meet someone on a chat site and fell in love with her (long story). Less than 2 months into the affair my wife catch me. I broke it off with the other woman eventhough she begged me to ran away with her ...

A.   25 January 2011: In answer to ex-Mistess: Yes my wife loves me very deeply, well at least until recently. She is very good to me and would do anthing for me. Unfortunately I'm not in love with her and will never be. To me she is only a safety and comfort zone. I am ... (read in full...)

I cheated, fell in love, and screwed up my life. Now what to do?

Q.   Almost 2 years ago I cheated on my wife. I meet someone on a chat site and fell in love with her (long story). Less than 2 months into the affair my wife catch me. I broke it off with the other woman eventhough she begged me to ran away with her ...

A.   19 January 2011: In answer to LoveGirl's question: No, my lover is NOT an old cow and yes she just recently became a Grandmother. No her hb doesn't know about us and I think one of her kids knows abit. I am Not trying to give up my child just to have sex with ... (read in full...)

I cheated, fell in love, and screwed up my life. Now what to do?

Q.   Almost 2 years ago I cheated on my wife. I meet someone on a chat site and fell in love with her (long story). Less than 2 months into the affair my wife catch me. I broke it off with the other woman eventhough she begged me to ran away with her ...

A.   18 January 2011: Thank you all for answers. Maybe I was too hasty to say that I would give up my daughter. My Mistress would not allow this to happen anyway and I love my daughter too much to do it, but I still would give everything else up to be with her. I don't ... (read in full...)

We have a 6 month old child but I keep looking at other men. Am I a bad girlfriend?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we have a 6 month old son. And recently i've found myself looking at other men and really really wanting them? i've told my boyfriend and he said hes hurt by it but wont talk about it. He works nights and ...

A.   18 January 2011: I think your craving attention. You are not getting the attention from your BF because of your schedules. You guys need to reconnect and see if you and him still have that spark. You are not a bad GF (your just human) because you were honest with ... (read in full...)

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