Should I get her back? Or will karma do it for me?
Q. This is a bit of a mean one. A girl who is supposed to be a friend slept with my ex within days of us calling quits. I know she had been after him for the entire time of our relationship (3years) even though she had a doting bf. Should I get...
A. 25 September 2009: Please don't do it. Just move on. Focus on your friends, not on your negative feelings. Don't forget if you get back at her, she can get back at you too. That's a lose-lose situation. Do you want that? If not, try to find win-win situations, like ... (read in full...)
I am suddenly attracted to girls but don't know how to approach one
Q. I have always been attracted to guys and i always had relationships with guys. I used to always think if girls were cute or not, but i thought thats normal everyone does that. But lately especially since ive been at college (I'm 18), I have ...
A. 22 September 2009: You'd be surprised how many girls are into other girls. I've met a couple that told me they were 100% straight but if a girl kissed them, they could melt like any gay / bi girl. That doesn't mean that all straight girls would react like this, but ... (read in full...)
How much of PDA's are ok?
Q. this question is for everyone. how much public displays of affection (PDA) is too much? what do u think when u see people displaying affection? is hugging, holding hands, and a quick peck kiss okay? if u dont think its okay then why do u think th...
A. 16 September 2009: That's an interesting question. With my current parner I'm quite discreet about it. Hugging and holding hands is OK, a pecks are also OK, but we'd both feel uncomfortable with long-lasting smooches. However, when I was younger and was dating other ... (read in full...)
Staying at his place for the first time....
Q. Ok so my boyfriend has asked me to stay over at his, because he works late and likes to have a drink, but doesnt want to have to drive me home. Im very excited, but also a little worried. I dont know if hes expecting sex (but he wont be getting it!) ...
A. 16 September 2009: I'm not sure about this because I don't know your boyfriend, but it sounds as if his not wanting to drive you home is an excuse for him to get you where he wants-in his bed. Unless you're sure you want to be intimate with him, then I'd tell him to ... (read in full...)
Females only, please: I'm in love with my sister!
Q. Probably I'm gonna get flamed here but I'm just curious if there are people out there like me and my sister. Everything started out as kid play. We both loved our Barbies and dressed up as princesses. We made up these stories about being save...
A. 16 September 2009: Wow, I didn't expect so many replies. I really appreciate your answers and some of them are really supportive. I dared talk about my situation in a thread on this subject (which was initiated by someone else) on another site and most replies were ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so affected by my boyfriend watching porn?
Q. Hey guys. Okay this is gonna be pretty long so please bear with me! i have been with my boyfreind for 3 years and we're moving in together soon. The other day i borrowed my his laptop and on the visited websites list there was quite a lot of porn. I ...
A. 15 September 2009: Hi, I think the problem is not your bf watching porn but rather you're being insecure about yourself, your body and self-esteem. You need to work on those issues rather than focusing on whether or not he's watching porn. If that really bothers you ... (read in full...)
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