I want him to 'want' to please me, not do things just coz I ask.
Q. My boyfriend is always asking of things he can do to keep me happy, and one day I told him i'd like it if he kissed me on my neck. He said he would, then he kept asking why, and saying that we should just kiss on the lips. /: I only wanted to do it...
A. 4 April 2010: It sounds like your boyfriend is trying very hard to learn 'how to be' a good boyfriend. Don't knock him for that. You are both still so young. When you get older, you will be seeking out the nice guys who care enough about you to ask how to 'make ... (read in full...)
What can I do? Boyfriend getting bored with me!
Q. so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months. and he told me today that he always gets bored with girls and thats why his longest relationship has only lasted 4 months. but he said he loves me so hes going to keep trying. i really ...
A. 3 April 2010: First and foremost: what are you still doing with this guy?? He told you to your face that he is bored with you?? You should have walked away there and then. This isn't love. There are lots of great guys out there who would walk over hot coal to get ... (read in full...)
Was it right to break up with my boyfriend? What do I do?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a few months two nights ago... At the time it seemed like the right thing to do. We were at the point in our relationship were we should either move forward or split and neither of us were ready to move ...
A. 3 April 2010: It is very important that you remember the reasons for your split in the first place: things weren't moving forward. It is natural that you might feel a bit lonely after a split - *everyone* does - but that's not a good reason to go back to this ... (read in full...)
I love her but the sex and attraction aren't there!
Q. I have an ace of a woman but I don't really lust for her and the attraction and sex is lacking. Everywhere I look, I see women who drive me wild inside and all I want to do is have sex with all of them. What should I do? I'm already with the kind ...
A. 3 April 2010: If you are not attracted to the woman you are in love with...then you are merely great friends. You can adore and love your friends too remember. I feel sorry for both of you in this situation: you have a right to have your own needs and ... (read in full...)
Help! I don't know if I should dump him or not.
Q. Ok so, this may get a little complcated (and long, sorry!) I met my boyfriend 6 years ago and, at the time, I didn't think that he was my type. However, I was intrigued to get to know him and decided to give the relationship a go. I was also cur...
A. 3 April 2010: Everyone needs to feel happy with their lives. Life is too short to 'waste it' (so to speak) on people who don't make you as happy as you should be. Your boyfriend may not have done anything wrong but think of it this way: would you want your ... (read in full...)
M I being melodramatic over him not getting me a b-day gift?
Q. I'm still hurting over something my boyfriend did a few months back, even though i know it will sound trivial. Here goes: on the lead up to my birthday, he said he really wanted to get me something nice, pretty much bombarded me all week for hints ...
A. 15 September 2009: Thanks all - to clarify; when he asked me for any ideas - i told him that i never feel comfortable asking for anything (which he has always known) but that i would really have just liked a picnic, or a day with him. He went into work instead - which ... (read in full...)
My friends wont accept me for who I am
Q. I have friends who I don't think I can be friends with anymore. They don't accept me for who I am and I am sure they talk behind my back! I am not good at confronting people. What should I do?...
A. 9 September 2009: Hey darlin Hopefully you aren't feeling too sad about all this - they are certainly not worth your friendship if they won't accept you for *you*. The whole purpose of having friends is to have special people you can trust, be yourself with, o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has unresolved issues with his ex-fiancee!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for six months and I really love him. He's been hesitant to fully commit to me so I confronted him about it. He always tells me he loves me and cares about me a lot. He said he hasn't been able to commit because he has ...
A. 8 September 2009: Hi sweeti
First of all - i feel your pain. I was seeing a guy for about six months too, when he suddenly told me he still missed his ex. It still hurts thinking about it.
What can i possibly say to you - what you want me to say (hang in there, ... (read in full...)
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