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My current gf told me to choose between my two daughters! What can I do?

Q.   I have 2 children to different mothers! one child is 7 one child is 7 months. I met my girlfriend 3 years ago. Our relationship was great and i looked after my 7 year old child every second weekend, but as soon as my other child was born my ...

A.   8 December 2005: Unfortunately, violence and isolation go hand in hand. If she insists on telling you who you can and can not talk to its because she wants to control you.... (read in full...)

She is with someone else but I love her...help!

Q.   I can’t cope anymore – need some help! Last year I got moved to a small office with only four people. One was around my age, a really attractive girl called Lana. I knew from the start she had a boyfriend and I myself was in a new relationship. A...

A.   8 December 2005:  Do you love her or do you see her as a trophy? If she’s a trophy then you are not ready to be in any relationship because despite the improvement you’ve made emotionally you still rely on other people to determine how you feel about yourself. ... (read in full...)

Why won't he introduce me to his friends and family?

Q.   My question is quite unusual: I have been dating this guy for 8 months and in all this time he refuses to take me home or introduce me to his friends and family. He always asks to meet in a restaurant or pub etc near where I live "to save me ...

A.   4 December 2005: Wow, This is a tough one because the relationship is filled with intrigue and some excitement. There is a lot of energy, the meetings, the confrontations, the searching, planning; but then there’s the pain. Where is it all going? Where is the w... (read in full...)

His possessiveness and the age gap are driving a wedge between us. Is it over?

Q.   Hey, I'm a college student and am in a relationship with a man 7 years older than me. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months, however I feel trapped in our relationship, he is extremely possessive and this is pushing me further and ...

A.   4 December 2005: Dear College (Kid), This man maybe anywhere from 25 to 29 years old so you’re still dating in your generation. You know lyrics from Michael Jackson’s Thriller, right? What about Thunder Cats…? You may be surrounded by people who say you... (read in full...)

Do I tell her what her boyfriend says about her?

Q.   I was recently at a works night out with the girls from work and their is this girl who i realey like she is so nice very careing and wuldnt hurt a fly and she sees good in everyone but when i was standing at the bar her boyfriend was slaging her ...

A.   4 December 2005: Don’t say a word, and don’t be a shoulder to cry on. Besides, she already knows who he is. They say the girlfriend is the last to know but really she’s the first to know and the last to believe. If you tell her and then ask her out you’re ... (read in full...)

Any tips on talking to girls...one on one?

Q.   hi im 18 yr old male - sorry for the stupid question - it's not one anyone can answer really - but i thought i'd say it anyway.... it's just that i never know what to say to people (especially girls). i like being in a big group and just chipping in ...

A.   3 December 2005: 18 is a great age! You have the world is ahead of you but you are definitely a man and time is very short. A stupid question is one you should already know the answer to and believe me, knowing what to say in a social setting is a daunting task ... (read in full...)

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