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Hi. Firstly I'm 29 not 31. (I made a mistake registering I'm born in 1982 not 1980(not sure how to change it)). I have no children but love kids. I believe common sense is unfortunately not very common. Love this site as there are no personnal attachments clouding opinions and it seems like most members just want to help. I'm currently in a serious relationship.

B/f treats me like I'm his property, not his girlfriend

Q.   Dear cupid, I have been seeing my bf for about a year and a half now and things have been changing. In school he always downgrades me infront of hits mates like grabs my butt.. I find it very uncomfy. In school he always acts like I am his property...

A.   4 March 2012: This is not normal. This is not ok. I don't understand the sudden shift. But this is not how a man treats someone he love. Move on. ... (read in full...)

Sixteen and the father of my twins is rejecting them because of a lying cousin

Q.   Hi, im sixteen years old and my bf is seventeen years old and we have 2 week olds twins and my bf and i lost our mothers when we was 2 years old (my bf) and 13 years old (me) but our family is happy except my bf cousin. She telling everybody im a ...

A.   4 March 2012: Absolutely flynn. Couldn't have said it better. ... (read in full...)

The guy I'm dating hasn't opened up to me in the slightest

Q.   I've been dating this guy for 2 months and we see each other a couple of times a week, we always have a great time together, the sex is good, he is very physically affectionate, romantic, kind and seems very keen. Has introduced me to all his ...

A.   24 February 2012: This is a tough one. It seems his actions are saying one thing but he's not communicating well. The fact that he introduced you to his friends is a good sign as he's not hiding you and is involving you in his life. How is he with his family? Are ... (read in full...)

Are there any health risks in swallowing cum?

Q.   dear cupid, are there any health risks involved with swallowing cum? please don't mention std's, because i already know that they're a risk factor, buuut i also know for a fact that the guys i've given oral sex to don't have anything. soo, o...

A.   23 February 2012: the main ingredients in semen are as follows: water, simple sugars, alkaline substances (which neutralize the acidity of both a man's urethra and a woman's vagina), prostaglandin, vitamin C, zinc, and some cholesterol. Swallowing semen has no i... (read in full...)

I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?

Q.   Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...

A.   23 February 2012: Are you kidding me? Are you honestly saying your life won't be complete without anal? Ok ok. Bottom line YES its cheating. No it is not ok. ... (read in full...)

I gave him oral sex on the 4th date and now he has stopped contacting me, are my fears of him never contacting me again correct?

Q.   I know that getting physical too soon especially if you are just dating and the guy is not your boyfriend is not the best way to go. However, I have been on 4 dates with this guy and on the fourth date gave him oral sex. I said some stuff that may ...

A.   23 February 2012: I'm sorry to tell you this hun but he's probably not gonna call. It seems to me he got what he wanted. That one date after oral was probably him hoping for sex. I really hope I'm wrong but there are alot of jerks out there. Please remember we are ... (read in full...)

He claims they are just friends but he has told me she is prettier than me, should he stop seeing her and stop texting her?

Q.   Dear all, I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I even had to see a councillor. And he advised me on what I should have in mind for my next bf. that year, I ...

A.   23 February 2012: He is completely out of line. If she spends time with him as a part of his group of friends that's one thing (even then I think you should be there)but it is inappropriate for her to ask him to dinner. If you asked a guy out to dinner alone how ... (read in full...)

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