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He said he loved me and was going to leave his gf. Now I think I'm pregnant and he's still with her!

Q.   I had an affair with a guy that has a girlfriend because he told me he really loved me and that he was going to leave her. Now that I think I am pregnant by him. He swears to her that it ain't his and that he don't love me. What should I do?...

A.   3 November 2005: Get out while you can! If this guy is telling you he loves you and wants to be with you, and also telling his other girl the same thing and saying the baby isn't his, you need to leave that situation, cause it could get ugly! This guy defintly has ... (read in full...)

I really fancy this girl, so should I just come out with it and tell her?

Q.   Dear Cupid... OK this probably sounds stupid, but there's a girl at school I have a mad crush on and want to ask her out badly... I've spent loads of time with her already but I don't know whether to tell her I like her first (as in say 'I really f...

A.   3 November 2005: The best way to start a relationship you want, is to always be honest about your feelings, and telling some one you like them is the first and most important first step! Go ahead, look for the signs if she likes you, like, calling you and hanging on ... (read in full...)

I'm brunette and it bothers me that my boyfriend ogles blondes!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He always does a double take when he sees a blonde woman (I am dark haired). He tells me he doesn't know why he does it, but would never be unfaithful. I find it hard to trust him because of his ogling, ...

A.   3 November 2005: Maybe it's time for you to take a turn and have that wandering eye of his, wander towards you! Spice it up, if he likes blondes why not freak him out by dying your hair, just to make him see that you can be spontanisis and at the same time secretly ... (read in full...)

He cheated with someone else's partner. Will he cheat on me?

Q.   I just found out that before we met, my boyfriend was having a sexual relationship with a woman who has a live-in boyfriend of 18 years. He obviously didn't care that he was having sex with someone else's girlfriend. And worse than that, he ...

A.   3 November 2005: If you relationship is serious than you need to talk to him and try to get him to realize your feelings on him talking to an old flame! If he has respect for your feelings than he will respect them! Give him time to come to his senses when you ... (read in full...)

Don't love the father of my daughter. Do love my ex. What do I choose?

Q.   Hi, I've been in a relationship with a guy for almost 18 months now and we have a 4 month old baby daughter, the problem is I am still in love with my ex. We were together for about 16 months and I loved every minute of it, he was funny, kind, ...

A.   3 November 2005: Can you sit there and play toss up with 2 men's hearts? You need to lay back and take a moment to realize what you are doing! First of all, if you're wanting to make this work with your baby's father you can't be having contact with some one you ... (read in full...)

Is my loss of libido from medication? Depression?

Q.   How does a person know if their sexual dysfunction or loss of libido is due to depression problems or not? I am aware of meds causing problems but for me I have had sexual desire problems for a long time and I am only 26. I just have no sex drive ...

A.   3 November 2005: The problem might be within the relationship you are in, it might have no medical reason what so ever! If you're not feeling the sex drive you wish you could feel, it could be the partner! I had the same thing happen to me in my relationship with my ... (read in full...)

Do I have trust issues?

Q.   I love my boyfriend but if he doesn't meet me when he is supposed to i get paranoid and think he is cheating on me or doesn't love me no more and has finished with me. Do i need to break up with him or do i need to sort out my trust issues? ...

A.   3 November 2005: I have the same problem with my boyfriend, but what i come to find is that no body is perfect but when you love someone you must have faith in that person until they betray you! The trust should be there until he/she has proven that they can't be! ... (read in full...)

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