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... Send *ace a private message | | | *ace's profile:Im 30 yrs old and have been married to my wife for 5 1/2 years. I am a father of 2 beautiful daughters and a wonderful son. 2 of whom are with my wife , my second daughter was a result of an affair I had. I am as much as a part of each and every one of my childrens lives and strive to be the best father and husband I can be. I credit this site for saving my marriage and myself. If there is any way that I can help other men who are either having an affair or thinking about do it I will. I think everyone that is stepping out on their loved one needs to take a step back and look at the hurt they are causing and how easliy that you can hurt the ones you love. |
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My pregnant wife or my mistress whom I have met months ago?
Q. My Wife or my mistress? I am in mid 30s.married for 4 years. Got my wife pregnant and I feel responsible for it. i got the work from another country . where i feel very lonely. until one day when i meet my other woman. she is everything to me....
A. 2 January 2010: I've been in the same situation, where both my wife and mistress were pregant and I had to look at the fact I had wronged two people. Take a step back, look at your wife and ask what made you fall in love with her? Do you really want to hurt her ... (read in full...)
I use masturbation to relieve stress...but I feel guilty afterwards. Any advice?
Q. Hi, i'm 15 years old and i've been masterbating since I was 2...Literally. I tried to stop last year but I still do it up to this day, although I feel guilty, dirty, and ashamed after. I heard it's a stress reliever , it does take away all my other ...
A. 29 December 2009: Masterbation is perfectly normal but for such a young girl it seems like you may have deeper issues. You shouldnt feel guilty if it is what you want but you should step back and see why your doing it. Maybe talk to your mom or older sister. I ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 29 December 2009: Happy Holidays everyone. I spent the holidays playing daddy to 3 wonderful kids. And I have so very good news. My wife and I are a renewing our wedding vows on News Years Eve. We got married on New Years eve 5 yrs ago so we decided (kinda last ... (read in full...)
I wonder how people "know" when they meet the person they'll marry for the first time
Q. You hear so many people say, when you meet the one "you just know" and "I knew I would marry him". How many people feel this strongly on a first meeting? Did you know this would be the man you would marry when you first met him? ...
A. 19 December 2009: The moment I met my wife I thought "this girl is perfect",although she laughs and says that she thought I was annoying and danced with me thinking if she did I would finally leave her alone. I realized she was the girl I wanted to marry oddly enoygh ... (read in full...)
Got my mistress AND my wife pregnant. Now my wife is being difficult. Shall I leave her?
Q. Last month I asked a question about how I could get my wife to forgive me after I had an affair and the other women got pregnant. Thankfully she forgave me but now things seem to be getting worse rather then better. My wife told me that she too is ...
A. 16 November 2009: [Moderator Note: Congratulations! :) Jacelyn is the child I conceived with my mistress.... (read in full...)
Got my mistress AND my wife pregnant. Now my wife is being difficult. Shall I leave her?
Q. Last month I asked a question about how I could get my wife to forgive me after I had an affair and the other women got pregnant. Thankfully she forgave me but now things seem to be getting worse rather then better. My wife told me that she too is ...
A. 15 November 2009: [Moderator note: Congratulations! :) And 'mommy' is...your wife or the mistress?] Is a proud daddy to Jacelyn Grace- born Sept 13/09. Both mommy and baby are doing great.... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 15 November 2009: Is the proud daddy to Jacelyn Grace.
born Nov 13/09 weighing 7lbs even and 20inchs long.
Kristy was induced on the 12th (due to low amniotic fluid), labor didn't progress so she was taken in for a C-section the following mo... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 28 September 2009: Each person is allowed thier own opinion, you wouldn't forgive me. My wife has, I thank her every day for that. like I have said several time before the feelings I had for Kristy were based on sex and lust. My wife has my whole heart.
Denny and ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 28 September 2009: Yes Kristy and I are still in contact we talk regually but only inregards to her pregnancy. My wife has met her.I won't go as far as saying they will be friends but they are civilized.
As for what I have learned through all of this ... Wow wher... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 27 September 2009: To answer the female readers questions. Kristy and I still have contact, she has moved out of town, she lives about 2 hrs away. She is due in 7 weeks , and is excepting a girl. We haven`t completely figured out how we will share custody just yet... (read in full...)
Got my mistress AND my wife pregnant. Now my wife is being difficult. Shall I leave her?
Q. Last month I asked a question about how I could get my wife to forgive me after I had an affair and the other women got pregnant. Thankfully she forgave me but now things seem to be getting worse rather then better. My wife told me that she too is ...
A. 27 September 2009: IS A PROUD DADDY TO A NEW SON!!!!
My wife gave birth to a beautiful little boy last week, Sept 22, @ 2:45am. Breenan Jace Ryann was born weighing 4lbs 8onze, he was 5 weeks premature but doing wonderful, Dr's and nurses have said that he is do... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 27 September 2009: IS A PROUD DADDY TO A NEW SON!!!!
My wife gave birth to a beautiful little boy last week, Sept 22, @ 2:45am. Breenan Jace Ryann was born weighing 4lbs 8onze, he was 5 weeks premature but doing wonderful, Dr's and nurses have said that he is do... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 6 May 2009: Well my wife has agreed to come to counciling with me . We strted marriage counciling plus I go alone. We also talked to our preacher and he has set up some time for us to speak with him. Her family is stepping in and helping out with our daughter ... (read in full...)
Got my mistress AND my wife pregnant. Now my wife is being difficult. Shall I leave her?
Q. Last month I asked a question about how I could get my wife to forgive me after I had an affair and the other women got pregnant. Thankfully she forgave me but now things seem to be getting worse rather then better. My wife told me that she too is ...
A. 15 April 2009: I am not trying to run away from my problems. I want to be with my wife , I love her but she also needs to be reasonable. She needs to understand she can't be mad every time I am 10 minutes late.
As for everyone telling me to stand up and be a... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 15 April 2009: I understand that she has the right to not trust me, but we can't fight 24/7. We have a rule in our house that we wont fight in front of our daughter and she did. I have been trying my best to show her how much I love her. But at the same time ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 14 April 2009: Things seem to go from bad to worse , yesterday I was about 10 minutes late from work and my wife started accusing me of being with Kristy. Today she started yelling at me in front of our daughter because she thought I was hitting on our neighbour ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 13 April 2009: WOW, as if my wife and I didnt have enough to work through already. Last week she told me she was almost 3 months pregnant!!!!! Her family is very upset and thinks that is the only reason she forgave me, she sas it isnt.
So right now I am tryin... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 3 April 2009: Went to a doctos appointment today with Kristy, had an ultasound and the baby looks good. To early to find out the sex, so we will have to wait.
I am spending alot of time at home. We have made a weekly date night for just the two of us and my sist... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 28 March 2009: M wife and I went out on a "date",spent several nice hours talking with out any yelling or blaming. She has asked me to go to church as a family tomorrow, each day is one step forward for us. I must say I feel like the luckiest man in the world to ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 24 March 2009: I plan on telling my wife everything from this point on, and not seeing Kristy alone unless it is for appointments and things like that.... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 23 March 2009: right now I'm staying with my sister. Yes, I have talked to Kristy once in the past few weeks, she called to let me know that she will be having an ultra sound on fiday and wanted to give me the chance to come if I wanted.... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 22 March 2009: Well like I said she moved home but did tell me to get out, But at least I know that they are comfotable at home.
And thanks for all the support.... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 22 March 2009: For the female reader who asked about my wife, she is still very upset. Good news is she moved back home, (she kicked me out mind you) but at least I know my daughter can sleep in her own bed in her own room. My wife did ask me to stay with her an... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 22 March 2009: just one. other woman i should say , her name is kristy... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 22 March 2009: I never really thought about safety when I was witht he other women, My wife and I wee both vigins when we met so STDs neve crossed my mind. I realized that I can defend myself until the end of time on here most of you you opinion of me and that i... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 21 March 2009: Yes, female poster I am trying to take the moral high ground here. Like I said I know what I did was wrong so now I am trying to do right. ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 20 March 2009: Star, thanks for giving me some points. I dont except alot of sympathy for ladies on here nor do I feel I deserve it, but I think I should get credit for stepping up and taking resposiblity for my unborn child.
To the female who said I should w... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 20 March 2009: To the female who wrote the last post :YEs I hurt my wife, I did the lowest thing you could do to a person and I know she deserves better. But I DO LOVE HER! I would move heaven and earth for her. YEs I f*cked up big time I know that and I want so ... (read in full...)
What on earth can I do now to get my wife to forgive me?
Q. I'm 29 years old and have been married to my wife for 5 years, We have 1 daughter who is 18 months old and I love her. I have been having an affair with this girl I met through friends since my daughter was just a few weeks old. It was me being...
A. 18 March 2009: I have talked to both my wife and the other women. Yes, the other women plans on keeping the baby, and I WILL be a part of the childs life. I helped make it so I plan on helping raise it.
Yes, in my first post I said I started having feelings... (read in full...)
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