My boyfriend spends more time with his ex than he does with me!
Q. My boyfriend has been spending a lot of time with his ex girlfriend. This has been going on since they split up a year ago. I tried to be tolerant of the situation as I didn't want to control his life. I did however bring it up with him once an...
A. 7 October 2014: Thank you everyone for answering. You are all so right. I know exactly what to do know. You have all been a great help. I have dumped him already. Thank you... (read in full...)
They say that opposites attract and you can complete each other, but is that too optimistic?
Q. Hello. I need some help in figuring out if opposites really do attract. I'm 18 and I'm starting to like someone who I probably wouldn't usually befriend, not for any negative reasons, but just because we're very different. For example, I like ...
A. 7 October 2014: It depends how different you are. From what you have said it doesn't sound like you would be too incompatible. Sometimes people with different personalities can compliment each other. If just depends on how different you really are. I don't think ... (read in full...)
I haven't had a significant other in years and I'm feeling very lonely
Q. I feel like I am dying of lonliness. It has been years since I have had a significant other. I meet men who are interested, but I am not. The last sexual encounter I had was a horrible one night stand because I was desperate to feel human (loved) ...
A. 7 October 2014: Hang in there. Finding the right person does take a bit of time. I know it is hard when you really want a partner, but perhaps if you just concentrate on the other aspects of your life such as going out with friends, then when the time is right ... (read in full...)
So many lies. Can I continue to believe the things my boyfriend alleges are true?
Q. My boyfriend was madly in love with his last girlfriend. I heard all about her in the beginning when we started to date. It seems she broke it off with him and he was having a hard time adjusting to that fact, telling me he didn't know if he wo...
A. 7 October 2014: I agree with the other answers. The lies are a red flag. As the relationship goes on for longer, it is going to be harder to tell what is the truth and what is a lie. It is probably easiest to get out sooner rather than later.... (read in full...)
Disappointed that I had a lesser role at wedding of my cousin. Should I tell the bride how disappointed I was?
Q. I can't help but feel a bit hurt over my cousin giving a more important role at her wedding and more thanks/attention in general to her best friend. My cousin made her best friend her maid of honor, and me her matron of honour. I thought it was s...
A. 7 October 2014: I wouldn't read too much into it. I know it can be hurtful, but she could only choose one person to be the maid of honour.... (read in full...)
Do I have a problem, and should I confront my husband about it? Am suspicions that he's cheating, but have no proof.
Q. A few months ago I posted about my husband coming home from a branch office visit for day (the branch was closing down) and I saw long scratch marks down his arms and small bruises around his wrists. They scabbed over and the marks were there for ...
A. 7 October 2014: The scratches do sound a bit suspicious. Perhaps you could probe him further about how he got the scratches without actually accusing him of cheating.
It's hard to say but just going on what you have said it doens't sound like he has been having a... (read in full...)
Why is this guy's behavior so odd? Have I done anything wrong?
Q. There is a guy at work who behaves very odd around me. I've noticed that when I'm either speaking or just listening to a conversation in a group, he will stand off to the side, like he's avoiding the group. When I leave to take care of something he ...
A. 7 October 2014: Although there is nothing going on, perhaps he does feel something for you, and is therefore scared something will happend, especially as he is engaged. He is just playing it safe perhaps. If nothing bad has happened between you previously, then ... (read in full...)
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