I'm tired of him making excuses not to try for a child or to get engaged!
Q. Hi I accidently got pregnant last summer with my boyfriend (we've been a steady couple for 3 years) and then had a early miscarriage. I took the MC very bad but by bf just shook the whole thing off as "those things happen". Now I've been wantin...
A. 19 December 2011: odd: "Basically, in his mind, getting married means that he no longer gets to be *who he is*, and instead becomes a tool to provide *you* with what *you* want, valued only for his utility, not for himself. What have you done to convince him ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of him making excuses not to try for a child or to get engaged!
Q. Hi I accidently got pregnant last summer with my boyfriend (we've been a steady couple for 3 years) and then had a early miscarriage. I took the MC very bad but by bf just shook the whole thing off as "those things happen". Now I've been wantin...
A. 19 December 2011: Thanks everybody for your answers! It has given me a lot to think about.
Firstly: Yes, it's some kind of maternity leave not money for lower income families that I'm talking of.
Secondly: Sadly I have a clock ticking, even if I took it more pan... (read in full...)
Trying to have a baby, and nothing has happened. What should I do?
Q. i'm trying to get pregnant from march we don't use condoms, don't worry we do go for tests. i haven't fallen pregnant still, i want my own baby as much as my boyfriend, her family and my mother want grandchildren. i just want to know what to do. h...
A. 27 May 2010: it's quite common to not get pregnant the first times you try, so don't worry! usually it takes 3-6 months, if you are as you as you are. around 60 % of all women get pregnant after 6 months of trying. 80 % are pregnant after 12 months of trying. so ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my relationship with my dad? I feel sorry for him but I cant help but hate him
Q. My father had a risky operation yesterday and when he called me afterwards I was genuinely disappointed that he had survived. I know this sounds truly horrible, but he is a bad person. My parents divorced when I was three after a very turbulent r...
A. 20 May 2010: I had a similar relationship with my father. For not very different reasons. Although I had made clear to him all through my childhood and youth that I didn't like him and was very angry with him. We never talk on the phone but my mum still lives ... (read in full...)
Waiting to have sex until I am ready So is this why my bf avoids me?
Q. My bf is a nice guy, very caring and loving, but the problem is that i dont see him all the time. he is always occupied with his work. even when we get to see each other, it will just be for a little time. Now he said he doesnt want to be alone with ...
A. 26 March 2010: you sort of answered this one yourself. if he says that he don't want to be alone with you because he feels like having sex with you, he probably is avoiding you because he only thinks of sex.
i don't want to be frank, but if he can't be arou... (read in full...)
I don't want to stay with him if he doesn't want a child in the future, what do you think?
Q. Well ive been dating my boyfrend for two months and he has a three year old daughter..and the relationship with his baby's mamma sucks, the bitch hardly lets him see her..and im 23 with no kids..and i dont really remember how we got on the topic of ...
A. 26 March 2010: I don't think it's selfish of you at all! If you want to have kids then you have the right to be with somone who wants kids too.
It is possible though that he will change his mind later on, but it is very possible he won't. Who says that the rela... (read in full...)
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