How do I get past the hurt and pain of my first marriage without letting it destroy my current one?
Q. My ex husband cheated on me and it destroyed me and made me very insecure. Now it is effecting my current marriage. My husband has never given me reason to believe he is cheating on me, but I am always looking for him to. I don't trust him at ...
A. 8 November 2006: Sounds to me that your problem is one of insecurity. I think the first thing you need to do is forget about the past and live in the present. Then start on making yourself mentally aware of the reasons you are feeling this way. I don't know how ... (read in full...)
What are the emotional consequences of losing my virginity?
Q. hey im 17 and a virgin and i have been looking into losing my virginty, but whats with the emotional consequence that people keep bringing up, once iv had sex? i do see how it would effect me...advice please!...
A. 8 November 2006: Most of the time when someone has sex for the first time it is with someone they love. The feelings of sharing yourself with your partner for the first time and giving them something that you have given to no one else is often overwhelming. Add ... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and now he is her best friend!!
Q. This is my first time asking for help on one of these boards but I need some advice... Okay first a little back round I had known this girl for 7 years, We meet and REALLY hit it off sadely she had to go back to a far off place, Now fasfowar...
A. 8 November 2006: Well this one is a tough one, but the words that I live by are these "Once a cheater, always a cheater!" It sounds to me like you are having a lot of problems with this, but you don't want to do what is really necessary to stop your pain which is ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl and want to go to the dance with her, what should I do?
Q. hi. i am a shy and unconfident person and want to ask this girl to the school dance. the only thing is i don't knw if she has a partner. she smiles at me every time we see each other and will sit next to me in my classes. i will wait for her at ...
A. 8 November 2006: I used to have the same problem when I was in school. I really liked this girl and would walk her to class and chat with her in the halls, but I never took that step. I found out a few years later that had I asked her out we would have dated ... (read in full...)
I feel my girlfriend is stressed out from college and work and only wants to lay around, what can I do about this?
Q. I have a slight problem. My girlfriend has not long got a job which means she has too work evenings three times a week sometimes four times per week if not on the weekend. The thing is she has college full time and does not have a day off. She is at ...
A. 8 November 2006: Your problem isn't all that uncommon. Most college students who were not fed with a silver spoon have to work. It makes it really hard for relationships when you have to study, attend class, and work, but if you are with someone who is ... (read in full...)
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