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I was the one fighting for "us". After the break up she keeps me hanging with mixed messages. What to do?

Q.   Hey everyone, Feeling a little out of sorts and looking for some guidence. I met my ex on a blind date some two years ago and we clicked. Due to bad living conditions with her room mate and a safty concern she moved into my house after 2-3 months...

A.   6 June 2010: For your happiness, and hers, I think you should move on. Don't talk to her, don't text her, don't see her ever again. It will take a bit of time since you had real feelings for her, but she isn't into you as much as you've been into her. Best of ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend's ex!

Q.   ok, well im in love with my best friends ex, i've always loved him even befor they went out i just dont understand why he chose her over me, she had a boyfriend when he asked her out and then she broke up with her boyfriend for him and the day she ...

A.   5 June 2010: You have let him go and redirect your affections. If he hasn't noticed you yet he probably never will. By the way, what did your best friend think when your other friend started dating her ex? If you don't know, ask her. If she was pissed t... (read in full...)

Should I tell him about the secret bank account?

Q.   Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and we always talk about everything, we are totally honest but that doesn't mean we agree or we come to a compromise. I am the most financially stable thinker between the both of us, I ...

A.   5 June 2010: I cannot believe everyone agrees with keeping this a secret, but I don't. I agree with those that said separate accounts are needed for financial happiness (e.g., a joint account; a joint savings account; and two separate accounts. But to keep ... (read in full...)

Single... or settle???

Q.   I am 19 years old and me n my fiancee, who is 25, have been together for a year and a half and we just had a baby, we have been talking about marriage for over a year now and i am not sure if we should. i am doubting if he is the one for me. I'm not ...

A.   5 June 2010: You are young. He is young. I cannot advise you to settle - you will break up in the long run. Maybe let him know how you are feeling unsure about marriage and suggest couples therapy. There you can saftly explore your relationship. If he reall... (read in full...)

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