A difficult choice: two men want to marry me!
Q. Wealthy man or sexy man? I have two chasing me, and almost cannot believe how this blew up all of a sudden. One is stable and caring, another is like lightning bolts in terms of our chemistry, and just kissing him gives me chills. It woul...
A. 19 May 2005: Well, you got quite the dilemma haven't you? Wish I had the same problem. lol. No, but seriously, I can understand your internal conflict. After reading your question though, it seems like all the answers are all right there in front of you. First ... (read in full...)
There's a lot of strain in my g/f's life and she doesn't want anything serious. Will I lose her if I back off?
Q. My "girlfriend" is getting out of a marriage that was extremely bad. Not physical, but a very self centered individual. Her divorce is in the critical stage b/c she and the to-be ex have a child. Anyway, her parents love me, and they keep saying t...
A. 16 May 2005: Give her some space, the poor girl is probably feeling so much pressure from her divorce and all the drama that goes along with it. Having your feelings to consider now is just added worry. Ever hear of reverse psychology? Seems people tend to shy ... (read in full...)
Since he started the new job, my b/f seems to want to break it off. What's happening?
Q. I have to fill you in first... my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months and it has been perfect. We never fought or argued. Everything about us was so right. Now he has started a new job in another city about two hours away. This weekend ...
A. 16 May 2005: Absence can either make the heart grow fonder in some instances, on the other hand its out of sight and out of mind. If we allow our relationships to be all-consuming this can smother us and make us feel like we want to escape and find ourselves ... (read in full...)
I've heard you're either "single & lonely" or "married & bored". True? False?
Q. Hey, I am nearing a huge fork in the road of my life. I'm with a girl now, about to move in together for the second time and maybe end up getting married in a few years, having kids and all that. I have "cold feet" I guess, because I wonder w...
A. 16 May 2005: We spend most of our lives searching for something better when what we really need is right in front of us. Many times we don't realize this until it's too late. In this disposable society, people would rather just throw things away then try to ... (read in full...)
The texting and calls have slowed down and I just want him to call me for reassurance...
Q. I have 3 relationships behind me. 12 years, 6 years and 3 years. There were various differences, but a common one was the fact that my partner either worked away or strayed. In March I met a wonderful guy through the Internet. We met, talked a...
A. 15 May 2005: You know what? You're putting all your energy into something that does not seem to be mutual. He obviously still has feelings for his wife. Even if his marriage is going to end, he's going to need time to adjust or he will take this baggage into ... (read in full...)
His ex-wife and kids still seem to rate more highly in his life than I do..!
Q. My boyfriend of one year is still real involved with his ghosts of his past. A wife and kids. They are divorced; she doesn't care about him. One of the kids isn't his, but still he will do whatever she asks him to do...help!!...
A. 15 May 2005: Excuse me, but #1, his children were there first, they will take precedence in his life for the rest of their lives. He needs to continue to support his children and remain responsible. Many of the social problems young people find themselves ... (read in full...)
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