Should my boyfriend be watching porn?
Q. Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by ot...
A. 21 November 2008: Wow. I can't believe all the anger hiding behind so-called logical responses here that are not helping the original poster. And how so many of you assume that if a woman is hurt by her partner's porn, then she's the one with the problem--she's ... (read in full...)
I always hear women should understand men's preference for porn. But no one seems to expect men to understand women's feelings on the matter?
Q. a quick question about porn From the many questions I read on here many women are uncomfortable with their partners using porn. I know how they feel because personally it makes me feel inadequate and hurt that my husband wants to look at other ...
A. 21 November 2008: "...there's not one who would not go ballistic over my repeatedly... CORRECTION--I should have said: "...there's not one who would not go ballistic IF I HAD repeatedly...... (read in full...)
He watches porn and I am disgusted!!!!!!
Q. i have been living with my partner for 2yrs and planned marriage, i loved him so much but now he has broke my heart,he said he watched porn once in a blue moon but i discovered otherwise-and what he watches is making me sick,all the girls look ...
A. 20 November 2008: Dear Male Reader from May 14, I know how you feel. I haven't been with a man my age in 20 years. My current lover is 13 years my junior, my previous was 12 yrs younger, and the one before that was 10 years younger. It's because I just can't get into ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend watches porn when I'm asleep.
Q. my boyfriend watches porn when i am asleep! i feel like i am not good enough for him or i am not satisfying him. i feel like i cant be as good as porn stars so he will want to finish me!! please help!!...
A. 20 November 2008: Hey Nooki, here we go again--it's the nagging girlfriend that is the problem! Of course. All we can think about are the ways we can control our men. Did you read the original post? He is leaving THEIR bed to whack off to images of other women. It's ... (read in full...)
Found out my bf has ordered some really, really sick porn! Is he a pervert and what should I do?
Q. I have found out when on my bf's computer, that in an email he had in his inbox, he has ordered 9 hardcore sick sick sick porn.!!!! What does this mean? is he a perve? He never seems like that. does it mean i'm not enough for him? I feel like i ...
A. 19 November 2008: I don't think people go around checking their partner's emails, cell phones and computer history UNTIL they have strong reason to. Then it's a useful tool to determine if you're being lied to. Still, it's sad that one has to resort to this and it ... (read in full...)
His porn watching is affecting our sex life in a detrimental way.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and I know he loves me too but our sex life has always been dysfunctional and at times non existent. I am 21 and he is 43, he has some trouble maintaining an erection and ...
A. 19 November 2008: DionvonLestat, he also has a porn problem and the poster should address this as well as his dysfunction. 42 is NOT that old. I suspect his sex life is affected by his porn usage. This happens a lot despite men saying that they use because they are ... (read in full...)
He lied about watching porn for 3 years. Should I dump him??
Q. My boyfriend have been together for nearly three years. The topic of porn is something that has come up in our conversations before and he knows it is something I really do not approve of. I found out back in June that he has been watching porn ...
A. 19 November 2008: Look, please don't listen to the posts that suggest you need to accept this or accept that your insecurities are yous alone. Compulsive porn usage has this effect on the partner, period. The problem is huge, the numbers are astronomical. This wasn't ... (read in full...)
I always hear women should understand men's preference for porn. But no one seems to expect men to understand women's feelings on the matter?
Q. a quick question about porn From the many questions I read on here many women are uncomfortable with their partners using porn. I know how they feel because personally it makes me feel inadequate and hurt that my husband wants to look at other ...
A. 19 November 2008: Hello, You point is entirely well-founded. Please don't listen to the responder who said your feelings are your problem and your inadequacy is your problem. That was cruel and heartless. It sounds like a lot of the responders are young and grew u... (read in full...)
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