Problem with girlfriend's past?
Q. So here's the issue. I am 18 and my girlfriend is 24, about to be 25. We met on a joke app (Funny Jokes) and found out we lived a couple hours away so we just started texting each other. Then we started Skyping and added each other on Facebook. And ...
A. 20 April 2012: Find a less experienced partner and don't confide or be too honest about each other's sexual past. It is important to discuss safe sex and any known STDs etc. ... (read in full...)
Heart Vs. Brain?
Q. Please tell me what should I do. I don’t really know what decision i should take since my heart and brain are battling. I have been dating with this guy for 2years. Then situations got really hard that we constantly fight. I always beg for his ...
A. 20 April 2012: Follow the NO CONTACT RULE. Absolutely no contact with each other until yours/his feelings have subsided. It will take willpower but repeatedly think of something you despised about him.....
Don't romanticize your first relationship. Consider... (read in full...)
I am being overcome by retro-jealousy, please help!
Q. I hope someone can offer some words as I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment. I suffer from retroactive jealousy and I have for the past year been working on it. Its a conscious effort and an ongoing process but sometimes, like today it can get too ...
A. 20 April 2012: Just to reiterate what other's have written before me. Talk to your partner, tell him how you feel, and am sure he will respond with kindness and love. Also don't judge him now as you initially accepted his love and his past knowingly. If you can't ... (read in full...)
How does a man lose interest so quickly
Q. I began dating this guy and at first I was not into him. He's not that good looking and was a little too clingy too early on. He came on really strong, and I wasn't over my previous boyfriend. So at first I didn't treat him too well... But the...
A. 11 April 2012: He is treating you the same way you treated him, in fact you treated him worse. Take in on the chin and find someone who is able to handle you better. You were just incompatible. ... (read in full...)
Can't deal with your lover's sexual past? Why not leave her / him if they have different morals to you?
Q. Hi guys AND girls, I've read a lot on DC about retroactive jealousy, or "his / her sexual past", and people having problems with it. Some very smart people here have made some very good suggestions on how to deal with it. The thing is, that i...
A. 10 April 2012: If you can't handle your partner's sexual past, find someone new. Move on, meet someone who shares your own values. Unless your sole intention in life is to be miserable and to make those around you miserable too.
Unfortunately we now live in ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed about my boyfriend's ex's!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 and 1/2 years now, I love him very much but I can't seem to stop hurting him! I live very near to him, and all of his ex's! There is the problem. Although he doesn't talk to any of them, I'm obsessed tha...
A. 9 April 2012: Only one solution to this problem. If you can't deal with his past, then finish the relationship. Respect the No Contact Rule, until you've completely overcome your feelings. Take time to recover, hence no rebound.
Start a new relation... (read in full...)
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