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Can you get an STD from giving oral?

Q.   Can you contract an STD by giving a blow job?? ...

A.   1 September 2008: yes, and if you are asking, you are too young/uneducated on the matter to be doing it. Take some time, and enjoy relationships first before moving on to sexual stuff. Read up on stds, what they look like and how you can get them before taking p... (read in full...)

My girlfriend ignores me for long hours. Is she playing with me?

Q.   I am getting stressed with my current relationship. She distant herself from me and come back close. After awhile, she distant herself again. It happened so many times. When she does that, she went missing the whole day. Not picking up phone ...

A.   1 September 2008: you said "her house"...so she lives on her own. Well, two things. either she needs alone time, or shes cheating. If she needs alone time, she's handling it wrong. She needs to communicate this with you. ... (read in full...)

I want a divorce but my husband depends on me for so much and really loves me. He has also worked on the relationship after I had an affair. How do I go about it without destroying him?

Q.   I am married for 7 years, I had an affair 1.5 yrs ago H found out and we worked on our marriage. In the last few months I have found myself wanting a divorce, I ponder and think of why. I dont come up with any answers. My H loves me very much, ...

A.   22 August 2008: So you had an affair, and your husband is good to you and loves you, and forgave you...and you want a divorce? Just go get one. Dont beat around the bush with it. At least afford him the dignity of being straight up and honest with him. Theres n... (read in full...)

How can I make sure the relationship makes it past her three month mark?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have hit the "three month" mark. She said when we first started dating that she always had issues at this point and rarely had a relationship make it past three months. However, she said she's falling for me and she can see ...

A.   20 August 2008: your girlfriend is shallow. If she is fixated on a timeline rather than enjoying a relationship with someone who cares for her, then you are honestly better off without her. Let someone else be her egg-timer. Bottom line, shes got issues, probably... (read in full...)

My husband has no desire for me.

Q.   I am 41 years. I have been very slim all my life. I have never weighted over 115 lbs. after I got married I gained 15 lbs, my husband was turned off by me completely. So I lost 15 lbs and we started to have sex again. Now I weight 118-120, and we ...

A.   20 August 2008: Theres problems deeper than your weight. And from youve said, i dont see any evidence that they are from you. Hes probably having a tough time with his own sexuality. Alot of men masturbate over sex when they are frustrated with sex because of thier... (read in full...)

I want a threesome, but my boyfriend doesn't--can I convince him?

Q.   I had a fantasy of having a threesome with two guys. I have a boyfriend and a guy that would join in, but my boyfriend is funny about seeing another naked guy. My boyfriend also wants me all to himself. He doesn't want to try with two girls be...

A.   20 August 2008: The least answer was a very good one. I will ad this, though. I hate to be black and white about this but.. Either he needs to let you explore your desires(to avoid resentment for not being allowed to do what you want), or you need to let it go and... (read in full...)

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