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BF has lost interest in sex and blames it on the fact that I am leaving. Please advise?

Q.   Hi everyone, It's been a long long time since I've used this page! But I thought this would be a useful and important time to use it. I'm currently in a relationship and it's very complicated. A lot of people say I should just get out but it's eas...

A.   4 July 2013: Dear CindyCares, Thank you for your reply. You definitely have a lot of points, many of which my own friends say. I guess it's just hard to say when you're actually in the relationship. It's not ALL bad....most of the time when we're together... (read in full...)

How do I put this situation out of my mind? I'm still not quite over him....

Q.   Hi everyone, I haven't written on this site for many many months now. I'm not sure if any of you recall, but back in January-February, my boyfriend and I were having major problems, many involving jealousy and other things. Anyway, unfortun...

A.   9 August 2011: Hi, well it's not a matter of wanting him back because I know that there's a reason that we broke up. The question is more whether I should see him once more before I leave the country. I have lots I want to tell him and I want to find out about him ... (read in full...)

Bathing suit problem!!!

Q.   Hi everyone, I've written quite a few comments on here before but I'm having trouble thinking clearly when it comes to this. My bf and I sometimes go to the pool together and we also go to the sauna. My bf would like to go to the sauna without an...

A.   23 January 2011: Well, I have to add that the towel is covering everything up, and he has said that it helps protect the skin when everything is "free". So in other words, he's heard that with the tightness of the bathing suit and wearing one in a sauna can cause ... (read in full...)

Should I accept this 'break' and see what happens, or just end it now?

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm the girl that was writing about the bf's friend sending him a porn link and some cheating related issues. Well finally, I guess it's no surprise to many but my bf has said that he wants a break. It seems as if this is coming o...

A.   9 January 2011: Hi Prostudent2010, Thank you for your feedback. You made some good points, and if it were true and I saw him watching porn or I saw him talking to this girl friend of his online, then I would definitely feel that there is something wrong.... (read in full...)

Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link

Q.   Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some trav...

A.   1 January 2011: Hi all, Thanks for the advice. I guess I'm really concerned because I just don't want to be in a relationship where I don't fully trust him. I trust that he would never intend to hurt me, and he says this over and over again. But as many of you s... (read in full...)

Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link

Q.   Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some trav...

A.   1 January 2011: Hi everyone, Well last night was our New Years celebration and it went rather well other than him getting a bit too drunk, and me not liking all of his behaviour. And in terms of the porn link, this girl who I think sent it to him has a bf. And ... (read in full...)

Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link

Q.   Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some trav...

A.   31 December 2010: Btw everyone, we still regularly have sex since I have come back as well. I think this is a good sign no?... (read in full...)

Are these signs of cheating?

Q.   Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed tha...

A.   18 November 2010: And to be honest everyone...I've been looked at all the signs of a guy who cheats and he only has many one, or tops two signs from that list of like 10. So I really don't think that I should be thinking the worst of him, do you?... (read in full...)

Are these signs of cheating?

Q.   Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed tha...

A.   18 November 2010: Ok everyone, to be honest with you, I think that it's just a coincidence that this shower and washing sheets happened all in the same night. He even made reference to the fact that I was questioning him about it tonight, and even offered me to smell ... (read in full...)

Are these signs of cheating?

Q.   Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed tha...

A.   18 November 2010: Ok everyone, I see that everyone has a different view on this subject. I've been with him for 2 years, and I've never had him be dishonest with me. I mean there was one moment where he text a girl and I found out about it, but he didn't do anything ... (read in full...)

Are these signs of cheating?

Q.   Hi everyone, I am suspecting that my bf is cheating on me. There are many reasons why I feel this way. - I came home to him today showering, which he would never do this late in the day - he wanted to change the sheets because he claimed tha...

A.   18 November 2010: Ok everyone, I see that everyone has a different view on this subject. I've been with him for 2 years, and I've never had him be dishonest with me. I mean there was one moment where he text a girl and I found out about it, but he didn't do anything ... (read in full...)

He's browsing women's sexy clothing websites!

Q.   Hi everyone, I'm the girl that had the boyfriend who wanted a break. Well things haven't gone as far as that but I have found that he has been checking out girls wearing sexy clothes online. He is no way looking at pornography, just girls weari...

A.   17 November 2010: Well, actually they were sites with a few celebrities on them or attractive looking women. I personally didn't know of any of the girls but they had that celebrity look. Luckily I still turn him on because I dressed up for him last night after we... (read in full...)

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