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He's browsing women's sexy clothing websites!

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Question - (16 November 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *illary30 writes:

Hi everyone,

I'm the girl that had the boyfriend who wanted a break. Well things haven't gone as far as that but I have found that he has been checking out girls wearing sexy clothes online. He is no way looking at pornography, just girls wearing skirts and pantyhose. Should I be concerned? Why does he feel the need to do this?

Please advise, thanks.

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A female reader, Hillary30 United States +, writes (17 November 2010):

Hillary30 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Well, actually they were sites with a few celebrities on them or attractive looking women. I personally didn't know of any of the girls but they had that celebrity look.

Luckily I still turn him on because I dressed up for him last night after we had that huge discussion about change of feelings, and stuff still happened! I'm still very very insecure about what will happen with us though. But the bottom line is that he's still around, so if he were really out of touch with me and wanted out, he would have walked out right?

Thanks everyone :-)

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A male reader, Cupid Boy Canada +, writes (17 November 2010):

Cupid Boy agony auntWhat kind of sites were they? Online stores? Fetish sites?

Sites like Victoria's Secret are just fun to look around, and not ONLY to look at the models but to see what kinds of things are available, what looks good, what's "in", what you might like to see on your gf, and so on. It's like an education in swimwear, sleepwear, lingerie, etc. Women know all about men's clothing and even shop for it, so I don't see what the big deal is.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (16 November 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntMaybe he's ghonna buy you something nice.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (16 November 2010):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey there - I had a cousin who used to come over to my house and when he left, all my Victoria's Secret magazines would be gone! I mean, your fella could be looking at it and using it like someone would a men's magazine. But, like the others have said, he may be shopping around to find you something sexy!

It sounds pretty innocent and light to me. Good luck, sweet!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (16 November 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI wouldn't worry. He MAY even be looking at stuff to buy for you? Have you considered that?

I would MUCH rather my SO looked at lingerie websites then porn, ANYDAY!

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (16 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntSome people would say that's a lesser form of porn, I don't believe it is. Panty hose and skirts may be a serious turn on for him, and a heck of a lot cheaper, not to mention virus free than browsing porn. Or maybe he's shopping around for clothing he would like to see you in. Personally, I wouldn't be concerned but then again I accept that men look at porn..if you're not then I can see where it might bother you.

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