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Is lack of physical attraction a valid reason to break up with someone?

Q.   My boyfriend isn't attractive to me. I'm not implying that he's ugly or that other people might not find him good looking but I don't. He's a good person and treats me well and we're getting to that age where we're thinking about serious commitme...

A.   18 September 2012: I think that you have to go back and ask yourself do i love this guy or is he just a great friend. we all have people in our lives that seem like our other have who think like us, who get us, but that doesn't mean they are the ones we such date. Yes ... (read in full...)

Was my mom a victim or did she just make a bad choice? Should I ask her now what is wrong with her or wait until I'm older?

Q.   I and my mom are very alike in character, we are both strong hearted and strong willed. When she met my father everything changed she was duped of all her wealth and became a slave to my father. He sent us packing. Since then my mom feels unworthy ...

A.   8 September 2012: I can relate to you, my mom had it hard with my dad,and she ended up runing away with us. and i always knew about their past, and yes it made me a harder person, i am very picky too, but over the years ive learned that we have to learn to trust ... (read in full...)

How can I tell him that the one night stand meant nothing?

Q.   I'm after a little bit of advice. I really have messed up and don't know how or if I can fix this. I really like this guy, but I thought he had made it clear that he wasn't interested in me. His best mate started flirting with me and I stupidly...

A.   4 September 2012: It may have meant nothing to you, but if he liked you it met something to him. Plus if he does know it whta his best mate that only makes it worse. I can only advice you to take the chance and say your sorry for what happened.even if you to weren... (read in full...)

I'm afraid my sister is on the wrong path -- what can I do to help?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My 14 year old sister is beginning to worry our family. I'm 20 and have been through the same high school she is now attending, and the way she dresses can and will get her in trouble (school-wise and peer-wise), from what I've seen in ...

A.   2 September 2012: clothes dont make the man/woman. the problem isnt her clothes its the way she acts. As woman we should be able to wear what ever we what without feeling judged. my sister wears shorts that looks more like underwear but that doesnt mean she a hohoho. ... (read in full...)

Want to break the ice with this new guy. Tips and guidance please?

Q.   Hi. I am 15 and over the summer this family moved into a new building with a boy my age. We never talked to each other but we saw each other all the time passing in the parking lot. Now that school has started again we've seen each other once and...

A.   2 September 2012: Don't over think it, Be yourself, say whats on your made, if he dosent accept that then his not worth the trouble.Also dont put your self down,We are all different and the best of friends will accept the differences in us. I know its hard, we all ... (read in full...)

My second Bf ever. He's older. Do I tell him I'm a virgin? Will that discourage him?

Q.   I'm in high school and my boyfriend has been out of high school for a few years. I'm still virgin but he doesn't know it. We have only been dating for about a month. We have talked about our past and he has had more experience with other girls ...

A.   2 September 2012: Just because you are a virgin dose not mean you have to say it out loud to who ever your seeing. unless you're in the situation where your relationship is ready to become sexual there no real reason for you to let him know. and if your wond... (read in full...)

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