My boyfriend might not be capable of fully loving me due to childhood trauma. What can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'v started seeing someone whom I have quite strong feelings for (we've been dating a month, but I've known him about a year and a half). An interesting dilemma has come up: Just as I've started to get those 'loving' feelings, he's ...
A. 11 February 2010: Update:
Well he's decided that he's emotionally unavailable and wants to be 'friends for a while'. I don't know what to make of it and don't know if I can be 'just friends' since I have stronger feelings than that. I'm saddened and hurt since he... (read in full...)
My boyfriend might not be capable of fully loving me due to childhood trauma. What can I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'v started seeing someone whom I have quite strong feelings for (we've been dating a month, but I've known him about a year and a half). An interesting dilemma has come up: Just as I've started to get those 'loving' feelings, he's ...
A. 8 February 2010: Thanks Griffo,
I think it would possibly help too but he's not sure. He seems to intellectualise things a lot and I can tell he's scared of opening his heart. He says he feels numb (he recently tried a reconcilliation with his father who was not ... (read in full...)
Need advice on Valentine's gift!
Q. Hi I need some advice for Valentine's day please? I started talking to this guy at the beginning of December, we've been in constant contact ever since and I recently flew to see him and it was really wonderful amazing so now we're doing the long ...
A. 8 February 2010: Go with your first instinct. I think a massage voucher sounds like a great idea- he's sure to appreciate it. It doesn't matter if your gifts don't match in value, it's all about appreciating each other.... (read in full...)
How can I be sure that this relationship will make it in the long term?
Q. Hi, I have been living with my partner N for three years. He is 24, I am 25. We both love each other very much, but since the beginning of our relationship I have been getting bouts of doubt about our future together. It happens every couple of ...
A. 7 February 2010: Hi there,
I've returned after 4 years to ask another question (which I'll put in a different thread) and had totally forgotten this one. First of all, thanks for the replies, they're much appreciated.
The end of the story is: after a further year... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has written me out of her life...and she says there's no chance of changing her mind.
Q. Dear Cupid I have been going out with a great girl for just over three years, but she has decided that she doesnt want to be part of this relationship any more, and she has ended it during a disagreemen we had about something very minor. From ...
A. 6 September 2005: Hi Matt,
I am in a similar position to what your girlfriend might have been before she decided to call it quits, so I may be able to shed some light on the situation.
Girls can be complex creatures (I am sure you'll agree). We are subject to a... (read in full...)
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