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Do I follow my heart or my head?

Q.   Do I follow my heart or my head? I was coming out of a relationship which I was not happy in and it had been 2 months, I started going out with my friends having a good time when i kissed a mutual friend of ours. I am a hindu he is a muslim. I...

A.   31 October 2008: Listen to your head. Hearts are great but they do mislead you sometimes. This man has hurt you! At a time when you needed him most with the passing of your dad. I am not doubting he loves you in his own way but you are young and I apologise I do ... (read in full...)

My insecurities are causing him to pull away, what can I do to stop acting this way?

Q.   Hello.I am in danger of ruining a really good relationship if I do not chill out a bit. I really am trying and I have started seeing a counsellor to help with issues from my childhood but I am so scared it is too late. He seems to have got to the p...

A.   31 October 2008: I am great thank you. I read all of the advice and it really helped. We are alot closer and I am learning to be calmer and think more about the bigger picture when I have a moment of oh my god! All is great and I thank all who answered me. Good ... (read in full...)

Can a man resist temptation?

Q.   OK. I asked a question earlier - about struggling with the way my boyfriend talks about women with his friends, I only got one reply and am sure that people must have more to say than that - as it was my first ever question and I have now had a look ...

A.   4 July 2008: I am not sure if people read responses from the problem posters. I would like to say thank you to most of you. I have actually started seeing a counsellor about the issues that I have been aware could self destruct what is a very good ... (read in full...)

Is he just in it for the sex? Or does he like me?

Q.   i met this guy at a party three weeks ago and we talked all night, we ended up snoggin, we exchanged numbers and he phoned me on the 23rd june and we met up, he ws really full on, we went back to mine and there was no one in so we sat downstairs for ...

A.   3 July 2008: Your so young! All I would say would be if you do have sex with him, be prepared that it could be all he is after. It may turn into a blossoming relationship but it may not. Have you slept with anyone before? Its a big step if you have and an even ... (read in full...)

Do you think I'm too obsessed with him? He admitted I call him annoyingly often. How can I change that?

Q.   Hi there! I've just got this thing that when i love someone i tend to call them toooooo much, my boyfriend just admited to me yesterday that it annoys him, me calling him like that. we've been together for 3 months now and i just feel like hearing ...

A.   3 July 2008: Its simple in theory, just wait for him to call you. I know it will be hard because in your mind you will be wondering if he ever will call you but at the end of the day, if he does not then you know! I know that is really hard but so true. How ... (read in full...)

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