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... Send *eartmender a private message | | | *eartmender's profile:Well, I'm almost 17 (21st of August's my birthday) and I live in Lincolnshire, England. The reasons I think I can help people is that I grew up with some reeeeally CRAP relationships around me. Then, because I never wanted to go through what my other family members had I started really looking into relationships and what makes them work or not work. By researching that subject I also came across different therapies and forms of counselling, and as a result I'm now on the final examination of a distance learning diploma in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming... It's awesome). And (apparently...) I'm "wise beyond my years" and so, while not fitting in with too many kids my age in a social way I may be able to help them with their troubles. I'm single at the moment, but there may be a relationship in the near future for me... fingers crossed
In real life I'm a bit of a recluse, a couple of years ago I entered a horrible depression but because I didn't have any friends to turn to and alcohol/drugs just really ARE NOT my scene I turned inward and became very independant-minded, getting very good at guitar (not meaning to soun vain, but look up Steve Vai's "Building the Church" on youtube and you'll get an idea of what I can do, then judge for yourself whether I'm "good") and read a LOT of books. Now I've started coming out of my shell a bit and have some friends, but with the exception of one very special girl I generally prefer my own company, but I still like to help people where I can.
I hope I can help encourage some people through DearCupid like some of the other dear "agony aunts" have encouraged me... :o) |
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I'm scared because we don't seem to have anything to talk about anymore.
Q. Hi everyone, I met this great guy 2 weeks ago. We've been texting non-stop and it's been made clear that we both like each other. He almost always starts the texts and is the one to continue them. But for the last two days, it just seems like ...
A. 19 July 2010: Well, like the others say, texting is impersonal and you do run out of things to say sooner or later. This isn't a reason to think the guy's a jerk or anything, it's just that humans are meant to INTERACT. We weren't created/didn't 'evolve' ... (read in full...)
Stay and fight it out, or RUN?
Q. Hi, I have a kinda hard situation regarding my parent/s. The story is this: when I was 6 my mum and dad got divorced and me and my sis went with mum, as is standard procedure I think. Then very shortly after that she met who would become my step-dad ...
A. 19 July 2010: Thanks for the reply Bernard, although I'm not really an army kind of guy. I'd lose all the little quixotic things that make me "me" through the training/ "de-humanization", but if that worked out fine for you then I'm happy for you and hope you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and my boyfriend has jealousy, drinking, anger management, trust issues, and more...
Q. im 15 and me and my bf have only been dating 2 months, but we both fell inlove realy fast, but he gets jelous so easy i cant even mention another guys name without him getting realy angry at me!!! he has anger management issues and i realy try to ...
A. 18 July 2010: I agree with the others, but I also know that when you are in love with someone it's really hard to dump them, so I'd reccommend this if you want to dump him and realise it's for the best but just can't bring yourelf to do it:
Go inside your head... (read in full...)
Fell in love with my old classmate
Q. So we graduated from school yesterday (don't live in the US) and I lack in keeping in touch with people after I'm not forced to see them (like at school). But there's that boy that sat next to me this year and I really like him. I could trust him, ...
A. 18 July 2010: Maybe if you exchanged phone numbers (if you haven't already) it may help? Building up a relationship via text or email isn't unheard of, and at least it gives you a chance to look at what you want to say, so you find the anxiety of speaking to him ... (read in full...)
Why don't boy ( like teenage boys) like girls with gingerish hair ...
Q. Why don't boy ( like teenage boys) like girls with gingerish hair ... im not ginger ( i have brown hair ) but my mate is and i feel bad for her.. i fink i colours lovly and so is she. please help. ...
A. 18 July 2010: To be honest, hair colour, prettiness, height, basically all things superficial are MEANINGLESS. If a girl's blonde, gorgeous, leggy, the works, but she looks at a guy in disgust and says "piss off you ugly nobody" and then spits on him, how nice is ... (read in full...)
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