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Confused and unsure of my sexual orientation...

Q.   I really do not know what my sexual orientation is. I mean, i thought i was straight, then i thought that i was bi-curious, but im not sure. when im online, and i meet new people, i prefer girls and they have to look attractive. but i date guys. ...

A.   27 October 2008: if you wouldn't mind having a GF and you find yourself looking at girls you have a huge possibility to be bi. Ultimately, no one can tell you for yourself. You make that decision on yes, i am bi or no, i am straight. your body gives you clues. act ... (read in full...)

I want a gf but can't ask one out! Help!

Q.   why is it that i wanna girl friend so bad yet could never ask one out. i wanna have sex but im scared to do so ...

A.   27 October 2008: ask one of your girl friends if she could hook you up with one of her friends. kinda like a blind date but not so much as one. If you two like eachother then swallow your balls and ask her to 'hang out' again. Once you feel comfortable with her, ask ... (read in full...)

I like my best friend, but I don't know if she likes me back; .

Q.   i wasnt sure if i was bi, until i realised i was attracted to both males and females, ill be okay with that one day. i wasnt sure if i liked my bestfriend, or maybe i always wanted to deny that i did, until a few weeks ago when i just admitted it to ...

A.   27 October 2008: oh what a cuwekikink. i have the SAME problem. no joke. What I think you should do is bring up the topic , not you and her, but being bi and lesbian in general. If she is really attracted to you she will crack, maybe you will have too. take some ... (read in full...)

She seems 'put off'' by me..what can I do?

Q.   There's a girl who I like, except I don't think she feels comfortable around me. Like whenever I try to talk to her she avoids eye contact and looks for other people to "save" her. Also today in my youth group we were doing the "knot game" where ...

A.   27 October 2008: i bet shes just shy. a few years ago i was just like that, try to get her alone, like away from her friends. dont say you like her just be like "hey how you doin?" you dont want to scare her off.... (read in full...)

Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!

Q.   my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...

A.   27 October 2008: your mom is going by her own experence or someone she knows. most people in sosity totally disagree with it. you ARE 16 so you can date whom ever you want, you just take the chances of him just wanting you for sex. Dont let someone stand in frount ... (read in full...)

I am 38 years old, a widow, and a 19 year old, who knows my age, wants to date me, is this proper?

Q.   Hello all I work for a travel firm, i am 38 and a widow, a work collegue has asked me out, the trouble is that he is 19, i do like him and he knows how old i am, his reply to the age gap is that he wants to go out with a older woman because th...

A.   27 October 2008: he's a teenager, he wants some ass. - my right off the bat response It IS ok to be any age apart. If you truly love eachother than nothing can really stop you. they say when you're inlove you look past all their flaws, age being yours. ... (read in full...)

He has a boyfriend and says the prospect of dumping him for me is tempting...

Q.   Last weekend at my friends 18th I met this guy Matt. We flirted for a while and then we were making out for pretty much the whole night. Then the next day we started texting each other and chatting on msn. He is such a sweet guy and tells me I ...

A.   27 October 2008: It sounds to me like this guy doesnt really know what he wants. What I would do it sit him down and talk. No judgements or anything. If he doesnt have the guts to be with you I think it means he wants his' fuck buddy' and probably wants sex. He ... (read in full...)

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