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writes: why is it that i wanna girl friend so bad yet could never ask one out. i wanna have sex but im scared to do so Reply to this Question
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reader, megaphone  +, writes (27 October 2008):
its simple and yet sooo hard to do the fear of rejection and finding a decent girl and not scaring her away and then having sex is uugghhh just soo new,
i suggest dating ask out many girls that you find attractive don't be afraid of being rejected, come up with a number that you think you can handel and a time limit and then lets say ask out 10 girls in one week at least one is bound to say yes and if its just not your week try it again and so on untill you meet someone that will be able to make sex comfortable and not so scary.
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reader, cyborgninja911  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Im in the same boat dude. We've both gotta put ourselves out there and just simply start asking girls out, it's all we cant do and with any luck will get a gf in no time.
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reader, hazelbanana +, writes (27 October 2008):
 ask one of your girl friends if she could hook you up with one of her friends. kinda like a blind date but not so much as one. If you two like eachother then swallow your balls and ask her to 'hang out' again. Once you feel comfortable with her, ask her out. You also have to think about this: girls want to be asked out by guys. It makes them feel good inside. When you do find a gf DONT stress to her about sex. dont even mention it to her for the first couple months unless she does first.
remember that girls are very fragile, just like you it seams. you never know what might happen if you just let go.
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