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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Last weekend at my friends 18th I met this guy Matt. We flirted for a while and then we were making out for pretty much the whole night. Then the next day we started texting each other and chatting on msn. He is such a sweet guy and tells me I really turn him on etc and yesterday we hung out all afternoon and holding hands and staring into each other's eyes and he told me he loves me.Now the problem is, he already has a boyfriend and says the prospect of dumping him for me is 'tempting'. He and his bf are having troubles because his bf treats matt like a fuck buddy rather than a bf. Yet he says he doesn't know if he's going to break up with his boyfriend or not and whenever i try to press the question, he gets defensiveI want to pull away because I don't want to get my heart broken but I really do have feelings for him and I don't want to lose this chance and we have SO much in common, what should I do? and we're the same age btw
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reader, hazelbanana  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 It sounds to me like this guy doesnt really know what he wants. What I would do it sit him down and talk. No judgements or anything. If he doesnt have the guts to be with you I think it means he wants his' fuck buddy' and probably wants sex. He might not be worth it. You also need to observe them together, him and his bf and see what he says. He could just be a one-night-stander type of guy.
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