Why does my boyfriend watch porn before having sex with me?
Q. Why does my boyfriend watch porn before having sex with me? He gave me a vague response, it was "I just like to be hard already so we can have sex." Then i explained how that could be interpreted wrong, if he didn't try to explain it to me. He then ...
A. 10 September 2019: If he uses porn to get turned on before sex, you, or any other woman, are merely a way for him to get his orgasm. Sorry, but you are merely convenient to him sexually. Time to move on.... (read in full...)
How do I encourage my husband to open up and make him feel safe doing so?
Q. My husband lost his business a year and a half ago. I knew he was upset by it, naturally and understandably, but he handled it with grace. Every time I checked in with him he acted as if he was ok and accepting of the situation. Eventually we both ...
A. 10 September 2019: Your husband is likely still trying to find not only a new job, but a job worthy of his loving ambition towards your happiness. Your concern about his feelings is duly noted, and he appreciates this, and he loves you for it, but offering too much ... (read in full...)
Childless by choice: please stop judging us
Q. This morning, as usual, I was perusing the questions on Dearcupid, when I stumbled across a question from a woman regarding her feelings about not wanting a child. Although I gave a comprehensive answer to the question, it touched a nerve with me, ...
A. 10 September 2019: After thirteen years of marriage, I had a son. It was a wonderful experience, even after he was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. At the age of thirteen, he broke the law, a sixteen-count felony, and was placed into the system. At the age of ... (read in full...)
My fiancé is being mean and ridiculous!
Q. Hey and thanks So my fiancé and I were planning a trip together. We had a disagreement and he said some nasty stuff to me. Called me names and actually threatened to rip my mouth off. I was shocked ! I couldn’t believe this man I’m supposed...
A. 10 September 2019: He's now showing you his violent side. If you marry him, you and your children will get to see and feel all his other violent sides, too, in a lifetime of misery. Very quietly, pack up a bag, sneak out, and RUN! Get help and protection, because he ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a man to become nasty and aggressive over not having enough sex?
Q. is is normal for a man to become nasty and aggressive over not having enough sex because that is how my boyfriend is and I give him lots of sex five times a day every weekend. I feel like his constant pressure is starting to put me off him and sex ...
A. 10 September 2019: Being his sex slave is NOT love. Why get used by a sex addict five times a day? He should at least pay you. If you have any regard for yourself, dump him. This is abuse, and if you marry him, he'll abuse you more, and in more insidious ways. He's ... (read in full...)
Why is my husband so unaffectionate and secretive?
Q. A male or expert perspective on this is highly appreciated. My husband of 5 years is not very passionate or affectionate towards me. He hardly ever gives me any compliments, especially not of the type that would make me feel attractive. He does say ...
A. 10 September 2019: One problem is that he doesn't have to pursue you. He's got you, and your loneliness and desperation feels clingy to him. If you go out and live a full life without him, he might notice, and want to be a part of that, and perhaps not. The problem ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is busy all the time and doesn't have time for me, what shall I do?
Q. I dont know what to do im gettin really depressed.. my boyfriend is ignoring me a lot lately he likes to spend time with his friends more, he was never like this before.. hes busy playing "playstation" with his friends, and going karting. i feel ...
A. 10 September 2019: He's obviously in the aimless, immature boy mode, and immersing himself in tech and playtime on a constant basis means he has no goals in life, and no ambition. He's stuck in a rut, and has likely not grown up with a father who would have guided him ... (read in full...)
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