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writes:I dont know what to do im gettin really depressed.. my boyfriend is ignoring me a lot lately he likes to spend time with his friends more, he was never like this before.. hes busy playing "playstation" with his friends, and going karting. i feel there is a gap and i dont know what to do, i feel hes far away from me.. i always tell him that he should give me attention but he says that i nag a lot, and i have nothing to do, well no i got used to be around him all the time and when he change all of a sudden it irritates me! what shall i do?
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reader, Haviette  +, writes (10 September 2019):
He's obviously in the aimless, immature boy mode, and immersing himself in tech and playtime on a constant basis means he has no goals in life, and no ambition. He's stuck in a rut, and has likely not grown up with a father who would have guided him into healthy manhood. It's likely he won't grow out of it. You would be better off finding a man who was raised by a good dad, and who would know how to be a kind husband and a good father to your children. If he's established in a good paying career, you won't have to mother an immature man, while living a bland life of poverty, and paying all the bills.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Guys need their own space at times. As long as he's not completely ignoring you or treating you badly then i dont see whats wrong with him hanging out with his mates every now and again and playing playstation.
Just let him know that he cant take you for granted and that you wish that the both of you could spend more time together. Also start hanging out with your mates more and maybe even take up a hobby so u dont feel alone when he's doing his own things.
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reader, Katrith +, writes (8 November 2007):
I hate to agree, but if this fella prefers his playstation over you.. run a mile!!!
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reader, becca78 +, writes (8 November 2007):
Have you tried doing your own thing? If you start spending time with your friends and having less time for him it may snap him out of it or it could cause more problems. If it's not meant to be, it's not. If you spend more time with your friends you'll have more fun than just hanging around waiting for him to notice you. This could be part of the problem - maybe he feels that you're too dependent on him? and it's pushing him away.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Your boyfriend is young, immature and clearly not ready for a relationship. He needs time right now to be a little boy. When he grows up someday, he may appreciate a gal like you. But for now, kiss him good-bye and start looking for someone who's more on your level and wants the same things you do. Good luck.
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