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What I don't get is all these coincidences...

Q.   I'm sorry, I am so lost, confused, and hurt right now. this may be a little long. i acted rash last night- i called this girl on block i suspected my live- in bf of three years has been seeing, i never met her before but she figured it was me and ...

A.   3 April 2011: Seriously chick wake up and smell the fermented coffee! This man is cheating on you, lying to you left right and centre. Don't be one of those silly females who confront the suspected other woman and then when they get told the truth flip the story ... (read in full...)

Have I permitted him to keep me on a string? I'm confused as to why he declared his love, yet made no attempt to take things further...

Q.   I have been mad for my guy friend for years. Since we were kids. We never dated while we were at school. We saw each other through our other loves and losses, moved in different directions, and lost touch. Neither of us married. A few year...

A.   23 March 2011: From the little that I know, I can say that when a man wants to be with a woman he will and nothing and no one can stop him from that. I would imagine that he would realise that you are a wonderful person and if he can see that then surely other men ... (read in full...)

I have destroyed my own marriage, my life is a mess...all for my lover who refuses to leave her husband. How do I get her to come to me?

Q.   All, I have been reading this post for about 6 months now and can see that what I have been involved with is Wrong! However, I found my soulmate in a younger woman and If circumstances were right she would be my wife. Nearly 2 years ago, I met...

A.   22 March 2011: Not to rub salt in the wound but you are a silly silly man. If you can't see that your so-called mistress is just using you with absolutely zero intention of leaving her husband for you or starting an open honest relationship with you not based on ... (read in full...)

The honeymoon stage in an abusive relationship and why it's so dangerous for the victim

Q.   The HONEYMOON stage in the domestic violence cycle confuses many. Often the Abuser has just left one abusive relationship at the height of the abuse in that former relationship. And thus is able to start the next relationship where the the previous...

A.   22 March 2011: Abella thank you for this article. I have recently come out of an abusive relationship and I must say hindsight is 20/20, you described the abuse dynamics to a tee. I hope more women get the opportunity to read this article and that it sticks in ... (read in full...)

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