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Is it wrong of me to say I would leave my girlfriend if she became an addict? Is it right of her to say that I can't keep things that might "tempt" her around?

Q.   I was having a conversation with my girlfriend the other day about her being upset because her brothers have started smoking weed again. I have no problem with weed. I've smoked it before myself, but apparently for them it starts them on harder ...

A.   26 January 2018: If you were the one that became an addict, would you leave her of your own accord? If so, then no. You weren't wrong. As for smoking and alcohol, are they a dependency for her or you? What is she getting at? ... (read in full...)

Its to the point where anything with my family causes problems between my husband and I

Q.   So my sister and I have never got on, even when we were kids. Now days we have little to do with one another, we have to get together occasionally because, you know, family, but we never talk, or have a conversation unless i'm being made fun of (I'm ...

A.   26 January 2018: All I can tell you is you wont have a husband for very much longer but that's not a bad thing. At least he wont be in the middle, side, back or where ever else or your endless sibling squabbles. You'll be back to doing that on your own again.... (read in full...)

Married and seriously falling for my doctor

Q.   I am head over heels for my surgeon. I have been seeing him for about 4-5 months and my feelings keep getting stronger. There was only one time when I thought he might be interested. He told me I had a nice smile and put his hand on my thigh. Since ...

A.   26 January 2018: Help what? Destroy your marriage for a fantasy? You're doing a fine job of that on your own. If you truly don't care for your husband then tell him and let him go, or is that too mature for you?... (read in full...)

Strong mutual attraction with my married supervisor. Should I continue working with him?

Q.   So I just completed my first year in a master's program at a pretty prestigious university and I'm held at very high standards due to the field I'm working in. For the next year I am required to complete several hundred hours of an internship before ...

A.   26 January 2018: What is your integrity worth to you? Do you want to be like your friends and see no problem with opening your legs for a grade? Don't forget, you attend a very prestigious university and are held to very high standards. Could your contemplation ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my fiance about my fantasy of letting him have sex with others?

Q.   Hello. I have a 35 year old boyfriend he is very handsome and active. He looks younger than his age which is a bonus. I love him so much and we have great sex since day one. He has introduced me to his family and friends and recently we got engaged. ...

A.   26 January 2018: I have to agree. I actually think you're not ready for a marital relationship. Remember, he's probably been there and did that before you even attended middle school, whereas you are only now spreading your wings. Is this really about him or the ... (read in full...)

His email to his brother hurts more than his affair

Q.   My partner and I have been together for 3 years in January, he cheated on me with someone I knew in October. In our bed When I was away for 2 days. When I came back he acted like nothing had happened but I knew in my heart and then my friends told ...

A.   25 January 2018: Walk away with your head held high. Staying with him will only lead to him walking all over you. He's already shown his absence of regret and intention to continue. Move on. You owe yourself that much. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Guilty of leaving my wife and son for my mistress! What should I do?

Q.   This is a tough one. I been separated from my wife of 10 years for 9 months now. We have a loving 2 year old boy. The reason for the separation is because I fell in love with my mistress. I been living with her now and we now have a relationship ...

A.   22 October 2017: Get the divorce and stay the hell out of her life. Be their for your son until he realizes he doesn't want you around and he will. He'll know you were too wrapped up in what you wanted that you willingly sacrificed him to please yourself. The lure ... (read in full...)

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